She's at the gym rather than partying?

[31Ross]

There is this beautiful girl at my gym I go to, she's very fit and tall but I'm 6'2 so there isn't a problem. My question is she's usually at the gym late, like Friday nights at 9 or 10 and same throughout the week. I'm figuring she's not much of the party type since she's at the gym rather than going out, which would be fantastic because I'm not either. Am I right by this assumption? I'm very shy so I usually don't approach any girls but I really hope I get some confidence for her, and she's goes tot he same college as me.

[Anonymous]

How funny, I was just thinking about this the other day. I'm at the gym Friday nights around that hour and I study while I do my cardio. And I was wondering if guys would think that I'm not a party type and would assume if I'm single. Because I'm not into the whole party and drinking scene and I am single. So, I guess its safe to assume that she is single which is good. Talk to her. if she's on the treadmill, try to use one next to hers and just strike up a random conversation. If she's studying, then ask her what she's studying, then ask her what's her major and so on.

[xxxworldisminexxx]

Considering nothing really starts happening until like 12am/1am . she could be working out and THEN going out

If you like her, then why not approach her? You've got nothing to lose. you've got a common interest (wrking out) and go to the same school, so striking up a convo shouldn't b too difficult.

even if she IS the party type, and your not, she may only be partying because she's single .. so don't rule her out if she ends up liking to go out, and that's not really your thing

just start tlkn to her and see what happens..

[31Ross]

That could be true, but every weekend? and she was even studying on one time while she was using the elliptical lol.

[xxxworldisminexxx]

Well, she does seem very school oriented. And working out seems pretty important to her. I wouldn't say every weekend... so maybe, she's not a partier (which is good for u)

so go ahead and strike up a convo .. it might b difficult when she's wrkin out .. so maybe catch her as she's coming in or leaving

[WealthierTie11]

I think you are right dude! she sounds pretty dedicated to looking fit which is always cool with us guys right? and as far as confidence... I use to be shy too but I just stopped caring and aproached girls to tell them just what I thought about them straight up! it sounds all douche and you will feel like one but they will see what kind of guy you are... good luck bro

[kevlar]

Yeah that girl has no man. Go for it dude. The only problem is nobody, especially chicks don't like getting hit on while they work out. You might have to bump into her around campus and strike up a convo. Say something like 'Hey, you're that girl whose at the gym.' BLAH BLAH BLAH.

[31Ross]

Yea I'm going to try and leave at the same time and just mention we go to the same school.

[TC123]

Probably just a hard working type, which is fine. As far as talking to her at the gym goes don't feel put off if she acts like a bitch when she's there, lots of girls are like at the gym for some odd reason.

[Anonymous]

maybe she has more of an interest in the gymand working out than partying kinda like me :P

you should start a small talk with her like find out what interests she has and maybe ask her to go for a jog or walk with you someday :P but first of try talking to her because this will help you get over you're shyness and give youreself some confidence because you sure seem like a good looking bloke :P

hope I helped xD