Losing weight is not as glamorous as it seems

[Anonymous]

I graduated from high school last june and ever since then I got really anxious. The anxiety gave me energy that I never had before. I find myself pacing around I literaly can't stop moving. So I started running daily and don't get me wrong it feels good but losing weight isn't all that great my skin is just loose and I feel really unattractive, even more than I did before. I was really overweight in high school because I never really did anything..lol I kinda just focused on work which I really regret ..but that's not the point the point is, guys never noticed me before and now they are everywhere. I don't know how to handle it, I'm not one of those girls who get into bed with just anyone and all these guys are making me pissed! lol my god I haven't even kissed anyone before.. am I a loser? lol don't answer that please..

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you lost way too quickly and that's why you have the excess skin. You may want to look into getting that removed by a plastic surgeon. Or your only other option is to gain some of the weight back and lose it more slowly so your skin's elasticity remains intact. It's not your body holding you back from kissing or dating a guy, it's your self-esteem. If you feel good about yourself and are independent and happy you'll be much better at finding love.

[faux_punk]

try weight lifting to tone out. Don't go by weight but by reps. that should help tighten your skin a little. 3x a week is all you need. but it might bring more guys then wanted. That can be changed with cheap ring on the right finger though.

[Asker]

my sister used to wear a fake ring but it never really helped

I will definately try the weight lifting though, thanks for the suggestion :)