Do you think he would start to like me if I lost weight or would he always picture me as that fat girl?

[Anonymous]

So there is this guy who I have been crushing on for a little while and I never thought he would like me because I'm over weight but this year... It was the first day of school and I walked into my first class and automatically smiled because I saw an entire table of some of my closest friends. As I was walking over to the table he was like " (my name) hey!" . It surprised me so much because he was sitting at a table with one of the popular girls but still took the time to say hey to me. Then later in the year I came into the class and he was like " Hey Guess What. I'm moving..." and I was like " Oh my gosh are you serious" and he led it out for a little while and then said no I'm not really moving. Do you think he was trying to see whether I would care or not? Are these signs that he likes me or am I crazy? I am planning to lose all the unwanted pounds this year and I'm so excited to change my life but do you think he would start to like he if I lost weight or would he always picture me as that fat girl? Any advice any comments are welcome. Thanks :)

[Sublimeinnature]

I agree with rita15...you seem confident. it does sound like there's some "crushing" going on so that's a plus when he uses your name in a greeeting and joking about moving. Guys fear rejection so he wants to make sure you like him more (i.e would miss him if he moved).

Also if he does like you as a friend then go with it, some of my best guy friends started as crushes when we realized we had so much in common is was only natural to be friends :-)

[Rita15]

Its your confidants, while your working on changing your outside change you inside too. The most attractive girl is the girl who knows she's amazing. It's your mind set. He's going too notice you becoming more outgoing before he notices your loosing weight.

[Kalantir]

It sounds like he's probably at least partially interested in you even if you don't lose weight. Most guys won't go out of their way to talk to a girl unless they are either interested or already friends. However, you shouldn't decide whether to lose weight based on one persons opinion. Do it for yourself.

[Asker]

No trust me I was planning to lose weight for awhile... it's not for him or any guy! It's for me... and guys are just a bonus lol