So my boyfriend Nd I are both 23, we’ve been on and off for about 8 years (only were broken up for a year at one point) anyways in his teeth he has like 3 with black on the top, he said their metal fillers he got when he was young? Anyways I can tell his gums are really inflamed. They bleed when he brushes but he claims it’s because he’s brushing “too hard”. But the gums are really red. And he has such horrible breath from it. Even right after he brushes it stinks so bad. I don’t wanna be rude and tell him that and make him feel bad about himself so I told him he needs to see the dentist because it’s been about 5 YEARS since he’s last seen them!! He claims he doesn’t like going to the dentist and their too expensive. He’s struggling on money right now. So I don’t know what else to do? Especially when were having sex it sucks because it smells so bad. Please help. What should I do or say?