okay my girlfriend has gained over 20 pounds recently. I haven’t said anything to her yet about it but I feel that If I don’t bring it up she will continue to gain weight. I plan on sitting her down sometime soon and telling her that she has gotten fat. I will then explain to her that she can lose weight however she is going to need to go on a strict diet and spend at least an hour at the gym until she loses the weight. Do you think that it would be a good idea for me to just straight up tell her that she has gotten fat.