So what should I do to get rid of this situation?
Why do you want to be depressed in the first place?
I just find depression sexy and attractive
It's the opposite actually because it makes you not want to do anything sexual with your partner and in the past, I've have fights and moments where I almost lost someone I love because of how I get when I'm depressed. It's highly unattractive.
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i have many friends who asked my how to get rid of depression or just feel betterbut i never heard anybody say they want help to get depressed i dont really understand how "depression is sexy, attractive" for you but i guess you should just find something else that is attractive for you
This has really ticked me off. My boyfriend has just told me 'I won't be here when you wake up. I'll be dead' and now I'm stressing cause he hasn't replied. You know why I'm stressing? Because he feels so bad about himself. He thinks he's horrible, undeserving, dangerous, selfish, cruel, ugly, mean, etc. He's none of those, he's wonderful in every way, but he definitely doesn't feel that way. He has broken up with me 4 times and he pushes me away because he doesn't think he deserves me. He has an X carved into his hand. He has voices in his head telling him horrible things. Sometimes he doesn't believe I could love him. He hurts himself for goodness sake. How do you think that's cool? It's not. Right now he could've killed himself. That's an important person gone. That's a brother, a son, a friend, and a boyfriend gone because of his depression. That's my best friend who's always been there for me gone. It's just not cool...
So I would suggest you learn about logical fallacies, critical thinking and consider all the shades of grey that there are, often wrong and right is simply a matter of perspective and thats kind of what being deep is, being open to, exploring and appreciating the possibilities.Oh and you should also learn about human weaknesses, like confirmation bias etc.Humans are very bad at knowing things.
because I think depression is sexy, attractive
It absolutely isn't. Is it because people at school seem to glorify it and use it as a means of getting attention? If so, that's really not cool. Depression causes people to give up on life, have the false impression that they're unloved and unwanted, and people sometimes end up taking their own lives because they can't stand the pain anymore. There is nothing "sexy" or "attractive" about that, it's actually very tragic. I've lost friends and family to depression. It is very serious, and not something anyone should be using for attention or as an attempt to be "sexy" or "attractive". Be thankful you don't struggle with depression, as those who really do would love to be in your shoes.
Do you know what the root of the reason you find depression appealing is? I'd try fo find out and then address that. For example, if it is because it tends to be a "trend" right now (unfortunately true, especially with teenagers it seems), try to work on building the confidence to be content with who you are and your decisions regardless of what is considered "trendy" or "cool" at the moment. Otherwise, if you're not sure, it might not hurt to speak to a professional if the problem persists, just to help you get to the root of the issue and therefore address it. It also may be a phase you're going through and you may outgrow it. Whatever you do, try to be thankful for things that do make you happy and the fact that you do still have the ability to find happiness in life.
because I think depression is attractive
How is something that messes up your way living attractive?
because I think depression is attractive.
Why would you think that?
I do not know. I am trying to understand
I think it's attractive to be depressed
It’s not. There’s no way to voluntarily become depressed. You either are or you aren’t.