My family member fat shamed me?

So, I used to be very overweight. I used to binge eat. I would eat until I got sick and threw up. At one point I started only eating once a day to lose weight and never did. Ended up having PCOS. Then my dr recommended gastric sleeve and I did it. I have a family member that decided to shame me for getting overweight in the first place. Calling me lazy even tho I was working out everyday and still not losing weight. I didn’t lose weight until I got surgery. And he says I took the easy route. But it hasn’t been easy. I work out everyday. I’m on meds for the rest of my life.

Is it the right choice to cut him out of my life? We’re a close knit family. And I’m scared that others will side with him.
My family member fat shamed me?
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