Weight tends to make me not get interested in the first place. Unless a woman suffers from a serious medical condition it's plain laziness that makes her not being in average shape at least... Some people may call me shallow, but the fact of the matter is that keeping yourself fit is usually in your own control. And if you're fat from sitting on your ass 4 hours+ every day after school/work. Then the fault is the person not making an effort to get more attractive. It's like a woman not putting on any make up, only worse, make up is a shallow way to make oneself look better. Jogging 3-10 hours a week is caring about oneself.
A couple of pounds over the average weight I can live with by the way. It can often be somewhat endearing too. I'm just talking about the truly overweight. Being 5 kg's over or under your ideal weight is not a bad thing.
I think its more than the weight, your very sweet yourself I can tell because you are thinking of this person period..many would say your being shallow? Really your being honest with yourself..on the surface...his weight..but the truth is he isn't coming at you in the right way to make you feel sexually attracted ..oh Douche bag how can you tell? Simple you said it he is sweet and nice..put him in the friend zone be honest your not into him...Douche ¥ Bag..p.s I'm 5 foot 6 inches..im not tall dark and handsome..but I got game...and I haven't won them all no one can but I've dated girls as tall as 6 foot and as short as 4 foot 11 so it starts with heart.
I wouldn't mind giving a try. My ex was overweight but he had other things going for him such as intelligence, sense of humor, etc. Also, he knew how to present himself well when needed. We broke up because I found myself no longer to be physically attracted to him and we ended up barely having any sex. My biggest frustration was trying to get him to exercise and eat healthier on a regular basis instead he just preferred to sit around and watch TV. It's unlikely I'll date an overweight person this time around.
I think most men care a lot more about how women look and not letting herself go.
Nope, I give consideration to people regardless of weight. I usually get to know them first and then make a decision. I won't give someone a chance if it's obvious we are so completely different that we would not work out. But weight for me isn't an issue, I give them consideration as I would give anyone else.
I know what it feels like to be ignored, hated, spited, and bullied because of weight so for me I have no problem with someone who is bigger.
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Back in high school a girl overweight was really into me, and even told me she knew I would never like her because of her weight. Though it wasn't really a main reason why I turned her down, I just wasn't ready to date at the time, I do look back and wish I would have tried. She was incredibly nice, sweet, and cute. Who knows if things would have been great.
I've had the problem before of seeing bigger women and thinking that I would not date them because of their weight.
I don't have a problem with it now though. I love bigger gals in fact. BBWs can be downright gorgeous and really nice too!
Nope, I mean, if she weighs over 300 lbs then I might not be attracted to her but I don't mind dating a bigger woman, if there is chemistry and I'm attracted then I don't see why not.
No, I can't say that I have. The closest thing I've done is chosen not to pursue a girl I found out liked me because of it. It was simply because I didn't find her attractive and that was one of the reasons why.
It's never been the only reason, but it has been a factor.
Yup. I only like skinny hot girls. Being overweight if the persons fault. Why let yourself get fat. It's a simple solution. Exercise, and eat right. Don't sit at McDonalds all day.
Most men aren't going to develop feelings for overweight women in the first place.
I've had feelings for a guy who was overweight, but the reason I lost interest in him was because his confidence was extremely low, and he had pretty much given up on being healthy. He refused to work out and he ate a lot all day. It turned me off.
I see it as the same as someone who sleeps around, no self control.
No, I'm with a girl now who's on the curvier side and I have no problems.
Personality does not have a factor when you are obese. Because its very unattractive, not only visually. A girl who is overweight is probably lazy, unhealthy, emotionally damaged, and extremely guarded. And about 90% of guys would not date an obese girl. But there is hope for you from the 10% 1/4 of them did not have an obese girlfriend initially,1/4 is obese themselves, 1/4 prefers obese girls, and 1/4 is ugly, but obese girls CAN be beautiful on the inside, and some guys only want that
Yes i have
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