He might have cancer!?!

[Sabrina98]

When we were hanging out with friends, messing around and asking a Oujia board questions. He randomly mumbled that we should ask it when he was going to die and if it would be from cancer. I didn't really think anything of it, but one of my friends asked if he had cancer and he kind of mumble a weird noise and didn't answer. we started texting later and he asked me what I would do if he had cancer. I sad I would be really sad and all that. When I asked him why he asked and if he did have cancer, he just kind of said just wondering and I don't know. I'm really nervous now that he is sick or something. Is there any other reason besides him having cancer for him to ask this question?

[traintolondon]

Maybe he just found out that someone in his family was diagnosed with cancer and realized that it was genetic to him (that he can get it easier because of his genes) and are starting to worry about it? But as rachiee said, its nothing you can do until he decides to tell you, if there's even anything to tell. If you are worried and feel like you should so something, do some research about how to support people with cancer and such. And if the day comes you will be prepared. But really, until he says anything different you shouldn't worry about it.

[Sabrina98]

Thanks and it turns out that you were right and someone in his familly did have it and he is worried that he will get it

[rachiee]

You can try to talk to him but unless he wants to talk about it then he obviously wont. You can't force him to tell you. I think you should just leave it be and be there for him as a friend regardless. Wait til he wants to open up. But there's no reason to worry/stress out over something you aren't sure of.

[rachiee]

Also I highly suggest you don't use an Ouija board anymore. Those things are dangerous...