Ugh help me?! Should I do this or not?

[k1234]

Sooo I'm wondering what I should do in this situation.. I am thinking that I will be moving out of the town I'm in now to go to the city in the summer, and there is a guy I liked here. It was so long ago really, which makes this kind of pathetic. I'm 20 now, he's probably about 33. The problem is I see him drive by everyday and he always drives in my direction and looks. A couple of times we have made eye contact but it's hard to tell lately because he wears sunglasses. I don't even think I like him now I think I'm just so in love with how we were back then, it was almost like a story or something- really instant connection that I've never had with anyone else. I liked spending time with him and I couldn't wait to see him again. I have tried to make contact with him after that but it was never in person.

I wonder if it would be any different now that I'm a bit older and in front of him? My friend is going in to where he works to find out about something else. Should I go with him and try to talk to him or just go to the city without doing anything?

[Bloogoo]

Quite honestly... age is no hindrance to any relationship. My first serious relationship was with a woman 14 years older than me (no- there were definitely no mommy issues... we were just good together... if anything, l was more grown up than she was, in some ways).

In my last serious relationship- that lasted for several years- my girlfriend was many years younger than me. Same deal... just good chemistry. Why these relationships started or ended had nothing whatsoever to do with age.

It seems to me that if he wanted to talk with you he could stop anytime as he's driving by- and say, "hi". You say, "so long ago"... he may or may not be involved with someone else by now... or even be married, for all you know.

If you really feel compelled to- you can always stop and say hi... but l'd check your expectations at the door first.

[idkitsausername]

If I was you, I wouldn't, only because of the age gap and from my understanding you don't know him that well. I would just forget. But if you really, REALLY think he is worth it, go for it;) hope it helped.

[blackkid2]

Let it go. Things change (usually in unexpected and unpleasant ways) over a decade.