Just because you are sexy it doesn't mean that you aren't getting serous people. You might not have gotten nearly as many contacts if you were either ugly, or a male. You just have to figure out how to sort through all of them.
Men are designed to be attracted to women. That comes with positives and negatives.You need to look ugly if you don't want guys to be attracted to you. Wear business clothes that hide your sexier features. Do something boring with your hair. Cut it really short if you really want to lower your sex appeal. Get professional, but ugly glasses. You get the idea. You might even slap on a wedding ring so the guys that are still interested will forget about you.
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Dress professionally. Never flirt. Never give off the appearance of flirting. Only smile politely. Make regular strong eye contact, with only a brief polite smile. Don't laugh too much. No touching.
If someone is hitting on you, walk away. Look annoyed. You need to show them that you're not there to flirt. You're there to conduct business.
hello fellow pretty girl:) Here's my remedy, wear no make up )or little make up, dress modest... yea my eye brows and lashes are blond and I look like a boy but it's all about getting away from looks and focusing on your personality, let your personality make people forget about judging your looks, be confident fun and outgoing, it goes a long way. If you are timid people may assume you are stuck up. Joke back with these boys and at the same time focus on the project, if you (worked harder) you could be on my team! or something like that..
make sure you are dressing decently.
beyond that, it's hard. I have men offer to help me etc professionally like one as a possible job contact but the he started hitting on me. it's frustrating. if you aren't appealing to their eyes they ignore you. if you are, they hit on you.
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Being less attractive would not get you taken any more seriously. It would just get you less attention.
Guys can be equally frustrated about not being taken seriously but we don't have female charm to use as an excuse.They wouldn't take you very seriously if you were ugly, either. In fact, they would probably ignore you altogether.
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