I am that same way. But I am more into upper body. So I am an over all muscular girl. I am 5.4 ans most of my weight is muscle. I can't run much because I have knee injuries that pop my knees out of socket if I do to much. I am a little chunky but I have lost 25 lbs and still have a big chunk of fat but again it is mostly muscle. I don't think it makes you unattractive. You are just different how everyone is different. there are so many girls that can not do the endurance. I would not worry about it. Just be your self not someone you are not. I have been dating this guy for six month and my inability to run never bothered him. He likes that I can actually take care of myself and not everything hurts me.
Most guys won't care, but I do urge you to take the initiative with your health. It sounds like you are in really poor cardiovascular health which will certainly lead to problems such as heart disease, heart attack etc. Your body will also deteriorate much quicker than someone who takes care of their body. I know you mentioned in another comment that you have no money, but running outside is free and is so beneficial to your health.
I always thought I'd never get along with a girl who's that way. But my current girlfriend is EXACTLY that way and more lol. It's genetic from her mother's side to be that way too and I've never had so much fun with anyone the way I do with her lol I irritate her for all that and more and I love that irritated woman - she likes it too lol
I've never though looked down upon anyone who's that way, I had just thought that I won't be able to get along with them when they lag behind and I have to too for them. Guess I was wrong :)
Be cool. Be a good person. Be nice.
These are FAR more important attributes than whether or not you can make a mad dash for a bus without becoming breathless.
Anyone who looks down on you for not being "sportier" is a moron. Screw 'em.
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What's funny is that so many girls' dating profiles claim they like sports and I honestly think they are lying about it because I very rarely meet girls into sports! Yet so many girls claim they like sports online... yet only a really small fraction of them actually have a photo of them playing a sport.
Only sports fanatics who memorize every damn sports statistic on their favorite team will really care. The rest don't. We honestly have so many more video game addicts out there nowadays compared to sports fanatics.
I can't answer for all the guys out there, but I've seen enough hardly sporty (even lazy) girls in average shape to believe that not being sporty does not really keep guys outta your reach, all other things being constant...ly decent.
I don't. I'm not very sporty myself. I'm not out of shape as I have a flat stomach and a small hint of a six pack. I'm happy with my figure and can run for a while but, I'm not comparable to some of my friends who could probably run for hours. Just be you.
those guys are such idiots. wy would it be so important that a girl can run? If she had any sense, she would most probably only run away from them...
They won't care. No guy will ask you to run a mile for him to determine whether you're attractive.
I think they only care about it when it pertains to sex.
If you get on top and you are out of breath just from getting on alone...
then yes, that is a problem.
Why not workout? Seems like you're looking for confirmation that it's OK to be lazy
So what if you're not very sporty. Nobody's perfect. And there are plenty of other things that are viewed as more important than being a good runner or a sporty girl in general. And we are not all looking for sporty girls either.
Not really, as long as she makes efforts to keep active and eat healthy.
No, since I'm the same I couldn't care less. I'm not the sporty type and have no interest in sport, so it would be a very good bonus if she didn't care for sports either
Of course I care - I don't want her having a heart attack during sex. And I don't want her laying there like a dead fish either.
lol no.
What do you mean boys look down on you? Are you hugely overweight or something?
Hmm why would we care about your "love" for sports. Jus bend over
if a girl gave me the privelage of dating her , I would worship her everyday for the miracle she performed
they don't care.
no
dont care
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