Let's initiate this by saying first: I am a guy. I was chubby, and I worked that off. I also grew too fast. The result of both of those is these annoying stretch marks just below the waistline of my pants on my back, and on my thighs. I'm seriously insecure about these!!! Are they a big deal?
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Well, i'm just going to come out and say this, but would you want to be with a girl who got turned off by something like stretch marks? They're perfectly natural and unfortunately difficult to get rid off. So no, someone who really liked you wouldn't be bothered about them
On the other hand, I was dating a guy who was pretty fat, and I gym and generally take good care of myself. And well, he thought there was something wrong with me for liking him because he didn't have a six pack. He just couldn't accept that someone could like him for the person he is and that frankly ruined our relationship. Not everyone in the world is shallow.3