I know I'm guilty of this as well, but I don't understand why people are so subjective that they need to have a physical appearance attractiveness, whenever it should really be based on how their attitude and personality is like. What are your thoughts?
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I am not attractive, but I can understand why people aren't interested in someone they aren't attracted to. What bothers me is when people go out of their way to be rude about looks. I've been interested in many men, and I am always understanding if they aren't interested back. I've never thought of them to be shallow or anything else like that. I understand that they can't be with me if they aren't interested. The problem is, many of them have actually been rude to me about it. It doesn't happen as much anymore, but when I was younger guys would normally act like it was such a horrible thing for someone like me to be interested in them. They had no problems with insulting me at all.
Maybe it's because not too many men have been interested in me, but I would be flattered if a guy was interested in me. So far I haven't had one interested yet (that I know of) but I would give the guy a chance. If for some reason I didn't want to (which is doubtful) I would never be rude to them about it.
I don't understand why looks should determine if you should be nice to someone or not.0