I feel like guys only notice that I'm cute because I'm short. Is that always how its gonna be?
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I am sad that such good looking people have these insecurities. You should be eternally thankful that you are pretty, and never doubt it. There are some ugly-ass people out there who would seriously resent you for feeling this way. You did however say that "Guys only notice that I am cute because..." which reveals that deep down, you know that you are cute, but want to be recognized as such for other reasons than your height.
I think that, unfortunately for you, it is always going to be this way. Here is why:
Most importantly, your height, to most people, will stand out first and foremost. This turns it into a defining characteristic, meaning that if someone were asked to describe what makes you cute, height will be the thing which is most readily accessible to the brain, therefore chosen first, and consequentially makes it the most paramount.
And secondly, people don't spend a lot of time weighing your cute factor, only you do that. One conscious observation is good enough for most people to slap a label on you, and believe that it is somehow supposed to encompass all of the other things which make you cute. Since your height seems to be such a striking quality, it is the one most people will qualify for your cuteness. Basically it is a shortcut the brain makes, because people are lazy (But probably more so because they aren't the ones stressing over it).
What you should realize is that there are plenty of short people who are not cute at all. Therefore, when someone calls you cute for being short, you automatically know that it is you being cute for being short along with many other factors which have remained unspoken (for reasons I just explained). They've made the shortcut in their head, and lumped all the reasons together with "shortness."
If you didn't quite get what I was trying to say, in simple terms: Who cares what other people think. Just know a good boyfriend would take the time to let you know every reason he finds you cute. Screw the others.5