I always get told I'm pretty and guys always look at me but I can barely get any likes or favorites on my selfies and it makes me feel really ugly and undesirable...
Can you still be pretty and not get many likes/favorites on social media?
What Guys Said 22
so what? fuck the social media...
you know you're cute don't you? of you do don't give a damn about likes ;-)2
To like a girl's selfie or not to like a girl's selfie?
If I do would it send the wrong message?
If I don't , would it also send the wrong message?
Will it scare her off or will it be nothing out of normal?
That... is the question of being male.2
Yes you can still be pretty even thou you don't get "likes"
You already know your pretty :))) But you need wear smile !!!2
Maybe try not to be so full of yourself? Some people get annoyed at narcissism. I remove people on my FB or choose to not view their posts when they are always posting new pictures of themselves. People wonder why America is slowing becoming the land of the stupid.1
Likes & Favorites don't determine beauty. hahahah~
why would you want to draw attention anyways?
;P Most people on the internet are just creepy.
Be a model if you desire it so~ .
You'll be making mula and attracting eyes ! xoxo2
Whats wrong with the world, I would like your pages till my finger falls off.2
Social media is a joke. Do you see how many uglies get "ERMAGHERD TRADE FACES WITH ME"?
Also all the girls whoring for followers on instagram n shit.3
Do these social media friends know you in person?3
I never get any likes either (Look at my cover photo ^^ LOL)
I've seen girls like that though, that are cute but since they aren't popular no one likes their photos1
You really are very cute! So forget the world, love yourself!! The world sucks, social media the most. So never think about them! 😜😃1
Getting many likes is more about putting something out there that gets popular and shared. If you have a bazillion Facebook friends this may happen more quickly, or not. But no matter how many likes you get, don't base your self-worth around them. It's useless!0
Absolutely. I know an absolutely gorgeous girl who's on both Facebook and instagram and she doesn't get many likes on her pictures. I think it may all be about popularity.0
You might be pretty but maybe not sexy lookin. Most guys like seeing a little skin sweety sorry.0
You are Cute but not Sexy hahaha guys you know0
Whats your ig ill get you some likes lol0
Yeah I know a girl who is pretty, but doesn't have a lot of friends and is not popular.0
This posses me off at least Your attractive, try living without a girl ever reciprocating your feelings. I'm ugly and not talented lol0
Yeah, you can. If you are shy this is especially true.0
show me a hot chick and ill show yo a guy whos bored of her1
I don't hit like on woman because my friends will see that I liked it0
What Girls Said 15
Definitely. Usually the people I see who get the most "likes" on selfies, are also the same people who get the most likes on like... a picture of their lunch tray. It's more about social media popularity. These people typically have a ton of friends on there, whether they know them much or not in real life. They also tend to "like" and "favorite" everyone else's stuff all the time. When people see you liking their stuff a lot, particularly a girl, they'll start liking back.
As far as the guys go, the guys below have said it best. If they don't know you well, they feel it would be weird to stalk your pictures like that. Some guys will do it anyway, but they'd probably start doing it more if you liked their stuff and what not.
It's social media popularity, not necessarily actual looks.1
yes you can plus social media's are kind of dumb if your just wanting to people to press like on all your stuff. I used to do selfies before that word really took off. SO by the time people made that word I had stopped caring about doing social media's. Besides camera's are evil :D1
people that have a lot of likes, is not all the time because of how good looking they are, but rather of how much they are "liked" as in.. do you know many people? popularity in the family, with friends, with people on the internet etc... gets you most likes, not just looking pretty. :]! I know many people who are not even "that" pretty "physically" but have an awesome personality and they look okay... so a lot of people like them as a person and give them likes.. thus getting more likes than the next best looking person.1
What the fuck does people liking your selfies have to do with you being attractive or not? It is not like you are doing anything interesting/funny in your selfies. Besides people that have you on fb probably see your face often enough to not have to like every pic of you.
When the hell did people become so dependent on social media to validate their existence or attractiveness?
You do realize in the past people didn't have Internet and they did just fine not receiving validation through electronic means.3
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Don't put your value on likes. Damn near naked pics get the most likes and you don't want to have to do that so don't worry about it. Don't depend on stupid stuff like comments or likes because what what you have to worry bout if social media did not exist? Where would you want your validation to come from2
I've seen some very pretty girls with like 4 likes on their photos and some unattractive girls with hundreds of likes. It's all about popularity. I also notice that a lot of girls are threatened by beautiful women and they won't like your photo simply because they're being haters. I stopped letting the amount of likes get to me.1
I can't wait for social media to no longer exist5
I used to do that a lot when I was younger on Facbeook, I would depend on people to like my pictures and I would let that decide how pretty I was. I don't do that anymore because it just ruin my confidence. Don't depend on people so much to like your pictures and stuff, its not worth it. Who cares what other people think of your beauty. If you know you are pretty/beautiful. Work with what you have. If you have it flaunt it, that's all I have to say.1
Likes have nothing to do with if you're attractive or not. I've seen the ugliest people get over a hundred likes so... It's not that serious2
Meh I keep my pictures up on Facebook whether or not they get likes or not. If I like my picture, I'll keep it up. :p1
You shouldn't perceive yourself by how you assume the world sees you. Whether or not you get likes or favorites isn't really that big of a deal. If I scroll and pass something that I like, I don't click like because don't feel like it's that important to wave a big friggin' flag over your head that says you like something. I hope that makes sense? lol2
Yes it's possible... do you have a lot of followers?
Well even if you do its still possible.0
YES! Apparently I'm pretty enough to get guys three times my age but my social media is a ghost town. ... Not even my friends like my stuff. -sadface-0
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