I'm a 32 year old mom of 3 boys and I feel like an average boring soccer mom. I try to keep up with my looks by working out and keeping up with hair, nails, etc, but I'm so busy with work and kids I just don't feel beautiful anymore. I love my kids and wouldn't trade them for anything but I just feel like I'm in a rut. Any suggestions?
Feeling Unattractive. Suggestions?
What Guys Said 16
You are a pretty, young woman. You have a husband and three boys. You work, take your kids to their sports events, and run your home. You also keep up your hair and so forth. You are feeling worn out, and that is normal. When we become more mature, take on a family, and handle the demands of adult, married life, we soon begin to feel that we have lost something. As much as we love the life we have with spouse, kids, friends, extended family, etc., we realize that our past is past. We can not longer keep up with the younger crowd (though often we don't want to). We feel a little more tired at the end of the day. We find a few more wrinkles, maybe gray hair. And we feel that where we used to look forward to our future, we now are looking back at our lost youth.
But you know, at 32 you have a lot of life left to live. And from your picture I can see that you are pretty, probably beautiful. You are your husband's dream and your boys hero. Stop worrying about what is gone, You can do nothing about it. Enjoy the life you have now with your family and look forward to many, many more years of wonderful life.4
First of all: You're not unattractive at all.
Second: I think what you need is alone time with your husband, and I'm not just talking about sex, but spending a romantic day/night with him. It seems that your busy life has no room for intimacy, and maybe that's why you're feeling this way, because you haven't had this alone time with the man you love in some time.
You're 32, you're not gonna look like when 18, but 32 year old women are still VERY attractive, and you take care of yourself, which is even better.
Like I said, try to spend some intimate time with your husband, tell him that you need something like that, tell him you wanna hear him say how beautiful you are, because you still are, you just need to hear someone close tell remember this so that YOU believe it yourself.1
Well to be perfectly honest, other than your insecurity issues, you have pretty much described my ultimate fantasy woman. I don't know if being someone's fantasy makes you feel sexier though.
My only other suggestion would be to masturbate, no one feels ugly at the point of orgasm.0
oh come on now... you look attractive judging by your pic ;-)0
Don't think of you unattractive , because so studies suggest that negative thoughts about ourself can make as old mentally and physically. So Always be happy the way you look that makes you most attractive woman. I saw many pretty people but if you strip their makeup off they becomes just as normal as anyone. so i think feel attractive to be attractive :)0
Your pretty so no need to worry0
Get a man who loves you and worships you0
Get out and do something nice for yourself! Also get laid. ... it helps. ;^)1
I don't see anything unattractive in your profile pic.0
Jesus Christ Girl , U'r Beautiful over it Baby !!0
There doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you at all. Your picture doesn't look bad at all either and you have a nice smile. I think you're doing the right things for yourself. I'd always be attracted to women who want to take pride in themselves, especially hair and nails. Nice nails is a huge turn on to me and shows elegance, sexiness, confidence and professionalism in my eyes. I love holding hands and playing with and massaging them. Plus I love cuddling and backscratches lol.
What age range are you looking for in a guy? A younger guy for example might not be interested due to your 3 kids. But an older maturer guy would not mind and would embrace that wholeheartedly! I'm in my early 40s and if I was single your situation would not deter me away at all. If you were serious, passionate, caring, loving, and I knew you were there for me, that would not be a problem at all. And as a guy who by nature reciprocates, I know I would return that and make you feel beautiful inside and out at any costs.
I think the easiest thing is to go online to a reputable serious dating site to be honest. You can put it all out there and there wouldn't be any games played. You don't have time for that and you don't deserve that. But keep doing what you're doing, and always be true to your kiddos!0
I'd sleep with you.0
Your husband is a lucky man. You are very attractive, believe it.0
Are. You. Kidding me. You are attractive and I don't believe you have 3 kids.0
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