Ok, I am asking this question because I have been single for about 4 months now and since I dont get out much I've been trying online dating. However the issue that I have noticed is that just about ALL of the guys want me to "hang out" with them. Basically after having just an online conversation, they expect me ot be comfortable with coming to their house. When I refuse, they get mad. It just seems like all the guys are just looking for sex, and the online dating is getting very frustrating, lol. I typically get a lot of Indian and or Middle Eastern men who will start talking to me as a friend and then when they start bringing up sex conversation I see that it's not going anywhere.
Most people in real life say that I am cute and I have only been with one man sexually although I am in my late 20s. Do I look sluttly to you? Do you think this is why I am attracting such trash? LMAO HELP
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You don't look slutty. It's just the guys. I did online dating for a short time and got a lot of guys aiming for the sex. Once in a while I'd get someone looking for a relationship. One of the users mentioned going to a paying site. Yes I've heard paying sites weeds out the less serious people just looking for sex. The site I went to was a pay/ free site. You could be a free member with limited access but a paying member could contact you and you're able to respond. Versus where on Match you have to be a paying customer in order to read someones message. My friends current boyfriend she met on PlentyOfFish. All I can say is create accounts on different sites (free and paid). Stick with it and become more strict in your profile. Write at the end if you didn't read this then don't contact me or I'm not into "hanging out". If you are on here like me looking for a real relationship then I will gladly talk to you.0