I'm 22 and I've never had a girlfriend, date, kiss or have been complimented by a girl in real life. I've assumed I was a late bloomer but over the years things I've tried like online dating and tinder have been epic fails. So now I'm really insecure.
I keep hearing from the opposite sex that I have small eyes and that I am not their type.
Can I please have some honest answers from the girls that lurk here?: Are small eyes a deal breaker to you, is my face really that unsettling for you? I'm looking into a surgery called blepharoplasty, where they cut back your eyelids and make your eyes appear larger. It's mainly done for Asians, and though I am totally white, I'm still worried because to be honest I never assumed my looks were an issue till things started suggesting they are. I've been battling poor self image for a while, now. :/
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I would not say that you have small eyes at all. In fact, just based off your picture I'd say you're quite attractive. Don't let other people's opinions get inside your head, you clearly just haven't found the right girl yet-- there could be other reasons for that that have nothing to do with your looks. Personally I wouldn't put yourself through the pain and extra expense of that kind of surgery especially when you don't need it.1