I know this is highly subjective, but what makes a man good enough? I am so incredibly lonely and down about the fact that I'm 22 and such a failure with girls. Literally every other aspect of my life is going smoothly. I excel in my education, job, friendships and im smart and have interests and charm, but I'm still alone. I've been confident and made the approach in real life but got shot down each time. My confidence obviously got hurt. Girls online also called me ugly quite a lot.
Am I attractive enough that some of you would notice me or consider dating? I'm worried that I am not up to snuff because I have never had a date and can't get matches on tinder. Be honest, would you give me a shot? Do I need to have low standards though? Because I'm not even that picky as is, so I don't know how low I have to aim.
Pls help me I've been on tinder for well over a year with literally no success or even a damn conversation... I've changed up my profile so much. Am I really that unattractice to women?
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What? Noo. Dude. You're actually pretty cute. You look really adorable, judging by ur avatar. I'd date you, honestly.
Are u sure you're not approaching women creepily? There must be a reason why you haven't been having luck with women.. you gotta use that charm of yours whenever u get the chance to. Flirt with them. Use pick-up lines if necessary.
Girls must think you're adorable. So I don't think the problem here is your looks.
Maybe you're awkward around them? Or get kinda nervous that u can't sound charming enough?
Whatever the reason is, you gottaa sound more confident in yourself and try not to take no for an answer (but don't be suffocating or sth).0