I have really dark under eye circles, a bit of a family trait on my mother's side and occasional acne so any time I go out in public I wear concealer and foundation at least and if I do more, unless I'm going to an event/wedding or something, I wear natural nude or skin toned make-up. Guys seem to always say they want a girl who's make up free or at least feels she doesn't need that stuff... but I feel like, I NEED that stuff. Since I started wearing make-up, I've probably gone out maybe 5 or so times without make-up or like a hat on, and every time dozens of co-workers or friends comment about how tired I look or have asked if I'm sick. It used to bother me, but I see myself in the mirror, and that's how I look without foundation on. With foundation on, I feel as though I look the way I feel. Staring at my natural face has even caused me to do some research on creams and things that might be able to lighten the area because I wish I could just go out into the world all free. I feel like these natural girls guys talk about have faces that do naturally look good without make-up... you know, no dark under eyes or heavy wrinkles or acne or any scars which is why they say that's the girl they want... its truly a specific girl and not ones like me. What's the deal?
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It is nice to find a woman that doesn't need makeup due to their natural beauty. However, it is very rare so there is no reason to feel bad about wearing makeup. I understand wanting to feel like guys find you attractive, but honestly it is your opinion of yourself that matters.1