I'm always hearing about how most guys won't date plus size girls which bothers me because I technically plus size. I tend to be on the lower side (size 10, 12, or 14 depending on the brand) of plus size but that still means I'm plus size. My body tends to look pretty similar to the plus size models (see below). I'm especially insecure about my stomach because I have some tummy fat. Not enough that it creates a round belly but enought that I can pinch it. I'm worried that guys won't be attracted to me because I'm too big.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm just going to be (brutally) honest. No, not a chance. Most of my guy friends would also say no (although, some of them - respectfully - should really try to aim for a target they can actually hit). For me personally, I used to be very fat and I've worked (EXTREMELY) hard to get into shape. And, lo and behold (sarcasm), I suddenly get attention from skinny girls. What I am trying to say is, in this day an age, skinny is sexy. Nothing you can say or do will change that. Please don't take my comment as condescension, just honesty.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Insecure for what? Those women even though considered plus size are not actually that large and they are beautiful, nice size. They are not too big and not bony. They are just right actually. Most men actually prefer women that are 'thick" and have curves, don't listen to negative opinions, google search on if men prefer thick women and you will be surprised by how many prefer it! Those women are thick not fat. So don't let that make you feel less attractive and please don't feel insecure. Know that you are fine the way you are. Being insecure is unattractive, so work on loving and accepting yourself just the way you are.1