Do I give up? I've lost 126 pounds in the past 2 years... im a new person. Yet I feel like girls that I find unattractive to me are attracted to me... out of 6 girls that work at the front desk at the gym I go to... there's one girl i know for sure that maybe likes me but I'm not attracted to her... i just feel like the girls I want are not attracted to me and I'm thinking like do I give up and accept maybe I'm ugly or something? I like always felt that I was attractive and that if I lost weight I would be good but now that I lost weight... i don't know if there's change. One thing I haven't done at all to really make sure and find out if I'm attractive is to socialize. I'm extremely nervous about girls I find attractive. .. so I just don't talk to them because I feel like I'm the old me and when I was 126 pounds heavier when i got no attention from girls. Im just scared if i do start to socialize and maybe look up there could be hope... one thing i dont do is look around. I like look down and try to avoid girls if i see them... one girl told me recently that she had a crush on me and she told me to look up in class because i never looked around. Is it a stupid thing that maybe if i do look around then there could be hope? I feel like im only comfortable with looking at guys when im at the gym and stuff snd feel uncomfortable when it comes to girls. I hope what i said makes sense... So help me.. please?
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