I'm 17 years old and Asian. I know everybody has different opinions on what's attractive, but from time to time, I really think my "asian-ness" is holding me back (it's so stupid). Sometimes, I'm even ashamed to be Asian. I feel like most guys don't really go for Asian girls. What exactly makes us so undersirable? I hate being resentful of my ethnicity and background, but I really need to know so I can finally settle my enternal turmoil.
Thank you for your answers!
Most Helpful Guy
You could be just not attractive as an individual... I certainly hope not, but it's a possibility. There are lots of beautiful chinese girls out there. Could it be a cultural thing like you expect boys to act a certain way (in your culture) but they act in a different way (because of their culture) ? I assume of course that you are not in China since being Asian wouldn't be a problem wouldn't it? :-)
Maybe you should be more of a go getter? Are you shy and introverted? Do you meet lots of guys or are you always doing stuff alone?1
Most Helpful Girl
Asian girls are so pretty! I get jealous sometimes.2