- Truth HurtsVote A
- You just shattered their worldVote B
- Because your supposed to lie and be dishonestVote C
i think average is a shitty word to use when u talk about a woman.
use something else. if u ask me 'like what?' ill tell u that a thesaurus is a wonderful thing.
i'd hate to be called that, even if i am. 'average' is just such a disgusting term. let me put it this way. we tend to take what u said to a whole new level. it's basically like...
" eh, you're not special. just another girl. i dont really see anything particularly beautiful about you. maybe if you did something, or fixed ur hair, or lost weight... maybe, maybe id call u 'above average'"
not that that's much better. but u get the point. it hurts.
I honestly wouldn't care if a guy told me I was average. What I think of myself matters more so why should I:/
Why do people get all offended when I tell them that "their" is "they're"?
Truth hurts. Plus i think a lot of girls might think average is just a nice way of saying they're ugly.
I think there's also the girls that will look at the guy saying this like, dude rude much...
all women think they look better as they really do look. hahahahha average is not bad... its fine... and u should be more gentleman-like and rather say u look ok...
I don't get offended, actually average means you're not ugly? Isn't that great? o. o
Anyways, girls who get offended were probably just fishing for compliments.
Some might take it as there isn't anything special about them since they are just average looking.
They want to be told that they're better than average looking. They want to be told they're beautiful. The truth hurts.
Nobody wants to hear that they're average lol. Even though I don't see how it's a bad thing. Most people are average.
Truth hurts :D
But then again, if you go up to some strangers and tell them they're average looking it's pretty rude xD
I guess the truth hurts.
Because every girl wants to feel beautiful and special. Which is the opposite of average.
truth hurts haha.
Its like being told your dick is average instead of being told its big. No guy wants to be told they have an average dick. They want to feel better and hear they have a amazing dick. Even if it is stretching the truth. One little white lie makes the other person feel much better and confident so it doesn't even matter. Just like guys want to be told they have big dicks, girls want to be told they are pretty and not just average.
Because you're not funny.
They don't want to be told they are just ok, they want to be told they are pretty. It is always more hurtful coming from the other gender to. Men also prefer it when girls say they are handsome rather than average to.
I think most are looking for a positive validation - To be honest with me the jury is out whether it is attention seeking or someone a bit fragile most of the time so I err on side of caution and be positive - I don't think it does any harm not to hurt someone's feelings.
To girls the word "Average" means that she is no good for any guy because she thinks guys will only accept girls above average. Society changes and it's like this today.
most people don't wanna be average, that's probably why.
Women don't like being called average and in reality their not usually something about them is exceptional, whether that's looks, personality or another quality about them. Plus it's kind of hurtful.
Nobody wants to be average in any respect, because it means they're right in the middle, one tier above being in the BOTTOM 50% of BADNESS.
They're all special snowflakes and princesses and you just don't see that, you tiny-dicked knuckle-dragging woman-hating mysognist.
Dear dude that asked,
While it is correct to be truthful, if this is someone you like or likes you, i would hope you see them as above average. If its a stranger, then be truthful, but if you know the person, just knowing them should make them stand out in a room of strangers.
Also, i dont think being dishonest is correct either. Instead of lying, why dont you mention small changes that could help? If they take it to heart or not is up to them, but at least your not telling them they dont matter.
Average is someone that is a step below beautiful and a step above ugly. Girls will take it as your telling them ugly, because in our culture there really is the beautiful and then the ugly.
The truth just hurts. Some of the bitter girls on this question just amaze me! Not every girl or guy is gonna be amazing looking for crying out loud.
Because they are used to being lied to
It's a trick question, you're meant to be nice.
And because calling someone average looking is considered offensive...
because most women put a good amount of effort in their appearance and that statement does nothing but undermine it.
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