so I'm a 14 year old girl and I have self esteem issues. People tease me sometimes about them and it only makes them worse. I feel like the ugliest girl on the planet, no matter how many times people tell me I'm pretty. I would put up a photo, and I will if I have to but I'd prefer not for privacy issues :)) I dint take compliments and I feel like I'm dumb, although I'm in all the top classes at school. I feel like I'm clap at piano, even though I made it into a specific orchestra and I'm at grade four and it's one of the only things that relaxes me. What do I do? I feel like no one likes me, and no one will ever like me/love me.
- Yes, I think I am uglyVote A
- No, I know I'm not uglyVote B
- Kinda in the middleVote C
Most Helpful Guy
What so let me get this straight - you want us to do the thinking for you? Even though you practically pointed out the root of the problem and any conceivable rebuttals and noteworthy counter-arguments available? Oh boy what has American society come to...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Be open to thinking of yourself as attractive. Most of the time, people who feel that they are ugly shut themselves off from the rest of the world for fear that it will hurt them.
In their opinion, the world's expected disapproval seems deserved. It is not. Most of the time, others only respond to a person as ''ugly'' because that person responds to themselves as ''ugly.''
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