My husband says I have a perfect body with perfectly sized boobs and butt. But all I ever hear on TV, the internet, and magazines is how real women have curves.. aka a huge butt and big boobs. I am definitely on the smaller side. I try to workout so I'm a little toned but I don't know if some men would actually find my slender body type sexy, feminine, or attractive. I am very insecure about it because its something I can't change. I hope my husband isn't just saying what I want to hear to make me feel better. Do all men really have different tastes?
I feel like my butt is in pretty good shape. I've actually done a lot of working out to get to where it is. I just feel like its too small and not womanly enough. It looks OK from the side and bent over... but standing straight up I feel like I look like a boy. :( please don't be too mean in the comments. But I would appreciate honesty.
Most Helpful Guy
Hey, you have a fantastic figure, and nothing at all to worry about! :) Aside from the fact that your husband is obviously totally happy with your shape, objectively it's excellent. Sure, some guys prefer one thing, some another, but loads of guys and girls would consider your figure perfect.
Your butt is perfect, definitely no worries there! And your boobs are smaller than average but that doesn't mean they can't be sexy - they seem to be a good shape and, rather than try push up bras to make it look like you have something you don't, I'd encourage you to be brave and go the other way. With small boobs you don't need a bra at all, so (when it's situation appropriate) and that's an extremely cute, confident and sexy look which is perfect for your size and shape. That black top for example is really cute and the back detail is gorgeous, but the bra really spoils it. Without the bra it would look fantastic (oh and cut the label out too!).
Bottom line - you have a beautiful figure, be proud of it and enjoy! :)0
Most Helpful Girl
im going to be very honest with you! your body is very beautiful! you're in great shape! but im going to let you in on a secret what would make you look 100x more beautiful and attractive.. confidence being confident in yourself and knowing an beilive in how beautiful you are! if you beilive it everyone else will and vise versa if you don't no one will regardless of what the media says! own your beauty! especially if you are insecure because you can't change it even more of a reason confidence is the way to go ! find any little way to fall in love with yourself an everyone else will trust me! it doesn't happen over night but little steps little by little can change your life for the better! you cannot love to anyone's standards but your own, I've learned that , on of the insecurities I had was my boobs I have a very curvy body small waist curvy hips but very small boobs and a lot of people would comment and make me feel insecure but I have small boobs because I am small and petite and most of my weight is at the bottom and have very little weight at the top. I recently was 40lbs heavier and had a lot of extra weight and had a pretty good rack but I always had men complain about how chubby and thick i was, now the complaint is im slim but my boobs arnt big enough it was then I learned you can't please everyone0