It seems like everytime i wear spandex or leggings or something both guys & girls look down at my crotch area, & it really makes me feel self concious & uncomfortable. Why do they do that?
Why do people always look at my private area?
What Guys Said 8
Well wearing spandex is kinda like inviting it to some people. But on grown women with obviously wider and flat crotch gaps, my attention would definite be drawn there. I kinda like that. I can certainly understand why that would unnerve a young girl. Other people have other reasons, though. Just speaking for myself. When I glance theft it's complimentary. It's kinda like looking the nice butt of a girl wearing tight shorts.0
Because patriarchy has trained our eyes to believe that your face isn't actually "up there" but instead "down there".0
may be you have big bulging parts0
"im gonna wear something super tight"
"i feel self conscious and uncomfortable because everything is on display"
What Girls Said 1
Sometimes it can make you have a camel toe and that's why. Maybe it's noticeable, are you sure your leggings aren't see through in the light?0