Most Helpful Girl
You're an attention whore because you're hot as fuck XD1
Most Helpful Guy
Women are different than men. Whereas men take pretty much only attractiveness and not being a complete bitch into account to give a woman a shot, women have a much more strict set of requirements, all varying.
The number one mistake I see made very often between men and women is that the other mistake their sexual or romantic interest or instinct to be the same as the other. Males highly value attractiveness. This should be no secret. Females also value attractiveness, but they are more concerned with personality, a stable job, social status--including having a good circle of friends, etc. etc. Think things that would serve them and any potential future children. And there's probably a lot more variables they take into account consciously or subconsciously that I'm not aware of.
Females are a lot pickier than men. Men have a near-infinite amount of sperm, so if we waste some on an average or meh chick who's alright, we lose nothing from the investment; and, more than that, we stand to greatly gain, biologically, instinctively--diversified and quantity genepool.
However, women can only have one offspring per 9 months. That means if she chooses a meh man, she could be out 9 months mating time. So, she has to be very cautious in who she chooses to sleep with: particularly in her prime fertility age, the early 20s. They don't have the physical urge of wanting to just fuck some random person. Sure, they get horny. But it's not the same. To women, most often but not entirely, sex is love. They cannot separate the two as men can. This follows suit, as women use love as a means to gauge which male is worthy of a shot at her egg.
Yep. Humans are animals. People don't like to think about that, often, but we are.
It could be any number of things, from the women you're hanging around--if you're hanging around women at all--a bad job, a bad attitude, bad humor, bad chemistry, bad location, you're not widening your net, etc. etc. You'll have to find out the personality or social kinks that need working out, yourself. Or go fishing in a different spot.
And no. From a platonic nohomo male perspective, you're not at all unattractive, and you're ripped. So...1
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