My friends all have boyfriends either from high school or they met a guy this semester at college. I am a freshman in my first semester of college and I thought I would meet boys at my college considering there's more boys here than girls but guys barely show interest in me and when I try to talk to them they don't really continue the conversation or they kinda ignore me and talk to other girls and friends.
Im pretty shy but i have friends and stuff. They are mostly girls though. I don't know how to befriend guys because they seem to talk to other girls. They don't talk to me that much. Just like in high school, unless they need to ask me something or talk to me :( I try my best to look nice and be friendly and talk in class occasionally but I've never had a guy ask me out for 19 years. I barely had any guy friends even. Guys barely notice me.
Its not because I'm not active on campus. I'm in 5 clubs and I volunteer but I feel like other girls don't need to do much at all to meet guys and have them ask them out or have guys flirting with them.
Girls at my high school and college don't seem to like me that much either. Like some of my friends friends look at me weird and ice me out so it makes it awkward cause everyone's already friends and I just met them. Some are super nice but some don't even give me a chance.
How do I make more friends girls and guys? What can I do to have boys approach me more?
i can't help but think it's because I'm not attractive enough cause guys would approach me if they thought I was pretty right?
I'm 5'6, 115 pounds, and i have 32DD boobs.
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Most Helpful Guy
From what I can see, I gave you an eight out of ten. Your face is very attractive and you have large breasts.
I have no idea why you haven't been asked out. Beauty is subjective, but I'm sure many guys would find you physically attractive. Even if they didn't find your face attractive, they should at least find your boobs attractive, which is usually a sole reason guys would date a girl. I'm surprised to be honest.
Now, have you asked a guy out? I'm assuming you haven't, since you said you're shy. I would recommend asking some guys out and see what they say. I would be baffled if you were continuously rejected.
If it makes you feel any better, I'm six years older than you and I've still never been asked out, and I've been rejected by every girl I've asked out in my life. Similar to you, girls always ignored me in high school and college, despite how assertive I was among them. I'm in the exact same boat and I feel it's because too many modern day people are superficial (girls are shallow due to money I notice).
How can you meet more guys? I would solely recommend just talking to several guys. I know it's annoying, but just keep trying.
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Most Helpful Girl
let me tell you something. im 23 and have my first boyfriend as of one month ago. i never kissed a boy until last year and never been on a date until last year either. i am very smart, very pretty, skinny and fit looking. i am a cheerleader and a future doctor. so no you are not weird. no you are not not pretty enough. ill be honest with you. i am really happy i waited this long for a relationship because i have the maturity for one. i appreciate it and understand what being in a relationship means. often times people get in relationships cuz they think its what they should do, dont be that girl. when you meet the right guy you'll no. u will meet someone but dont think that there's anything wrong with u cuz u dont have one1
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