I feel like I have all these features that work against me in the eyes of the male 'preference'.
I'm short (5'1). Almost all guys I know prefer their women 5'5+.
I'm flat chested.
I'm blonde. Everyone knows brunettes are the prefered type.
My waist isn't that small and my hips aren't that big.
I'm not very feminine. I take pride in being able to do hard, physical labor on my own.
I like nerd stuff like astronomy, paleontology, and ecology instead of being good at dancing, fashion, and makeup.
I'm clumsy and I swear and I take terrible pictures thanks to me not being photogenic one bit.
It seems everything that makes up who I am is the opposite of what is generally preferred and it's a little disheartening. I like who I am, but I'm not sure if anyone else will.
Most Helpful Guy
You're a girl, And you're young.
Someone will be attracted to you... Its literally fucking impossible there won't be... Shit like that dosen't matter.
Some girl i went to school with, Is like 5ft 3, Weighs about 350-400lbs, And is dating some extremely fit, And good looking guy who use to be in the army and shit.
Seriously, Being a girl is enough to get a date, You guys have literally no fucking idea how easy it is to date a girl, You can litterally go up to like 90% of guys, Ask them out and i gurantee the majority will say yes.1
Most Helpful Girl
First off, I'm pretty sure a ton of guys don't have a preference in hair color (and those that do usually have a fixation on blondes) and most guys actually claim they prefer a "natural" look to makeup. (I actually feel a little discriminated against since makeup is one of my favorite hobbies, I don't appreciate dudes telling me not to be myself). Plenty of men prefer short women (and you're one of the few that can date short guys without towering over them which is so cool, i'm 5'2 and I def take advantage of this) Anyhow, you said you like who you are, that's AWESOME!!! You already have a leg up, confidence is definitely attractive. Just let your unique and wonderful self shine through and the right people will recognize it.0