I know i'm not good looking, but i think i'm just above average. Problem is girls dont seem to like me. Some of them avoid me and dont even look at me when i talk to them at school or work. I think i have a good personality because i seem to get along with people and I've even been described as " easy going " " nice" by others. So I don't know if my looks is what is causing for girls to not be attracted to them.
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It could be many other factors besides just your looks.
I think there has been a consensus that by being too nice to them would only make them only be a regular friend to you or allow them to just walk all over you. They wouldn't feel attract to you as someone that would be more than just your friend.
Then again, why even worry and think so much about why they don't seem to like you?
Only do what you have control over. If you think you are ugly then would you consider going the route of changing your appearance by any means necessary such as through plastic surgery and stuff? I really don't think so.
But what you can do is that you still can change your grooming, such get a haircut, maybe a new and more interesting and better hairstyle, shave. You can try to wear better clothes and learn a thing or two about fashion and what makes you look best when you wear what outfit and shoes, etc. That and hygiene, and the attitude and confidence, this is all required adjustments and a learning as long as you still feel it is worth your time, energy and effort.
Otherwise, do nothing, or keep on doing the same exact things even when you are still seeing the SAME EXACT RESULTS, or simply JUST QUIT. But, it's really on you in the end to decide.1