Should I make an excuse or just meet up?
Okay so I'm meeting my boyfriend of 1 month for the first time tomorrow and I'm worrried he's not going to like me because of my body. I looked at his exs and they were ll very skinny and tbh I'm not that skinny... I'm kinda thick and I dont think he knows. What if he like sees me and bails on me or something? Or is here some outfits that make you look skinnier? Or do I just tell him I can't meet up? I'm really nervous because I really like him but I don't know..
Most Helpful Guy
Finding something to wear that will make you skinny will just shovel the prkblem forward and make it even harder for you down the road. Send him a pic of yourself. Give him an exit route that won't crush your feelings in case he is not interested. Make it easier for you...0
Most Helpful Girl
If he's never seen you before and doesn't know you, he is not your boyfriend. Just meet with him the same way that you would meet with anyone. Don't make a big deal about it. Certainly never call someone your "boyfriend" so prematurely. I've been consulting with the vendor down the street for over 20 years; we speak on the phone almost daily and next now that texting is a thing. He's not my boyfrlend...0