My friend is 33 and a single mom. I honestly think she is one of the most beautiful women I've seen, plus, she's incredibly fun and sweet. And she sings like an angel. If I were a man, I'd marry her in a second. Yet no one wants her for something serious.
Now don't get me wrong. She gets all the guys' attention, and she fucks A LOT, and even though she's so sweet, in bed she fucks like an animal. I know that for a fact since I lived with her for a while. But it kinda stays there and I don't think it's all her fault. I overheard some guys at the bar talking about her, how stunning she is and how they would love to do her, but that she for some reason doesn't LOOK like marriage material. I know she has a great personality for being someone's wife, but is it something about her looks? I don't think she looks slutty or anything. Just pretty.
Most Helpful Guy
Simplest reason is being a single mom is a big turn off. Men don't want to spend their time and energy on another man's child. Not to mention they can become liable for child support in as little as one year if they act like a parent. Not to mention, almost all mothers, and almost all single mothers, put the kid number 1 in life.
So if your girlfriend or wife has a kid, you might be able to stay number one with care, or it might be her and the kid and you're the third wheel.
If you date or marry a single mom... about 99.99999% chance you're never her number 1, ever.
That, and what if you got attached to the kid, and things went bad? Then you're in this situation
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe it's the men she picks up... tbh a man can sniff out someone with low self esteem from a woman 10 yards away and pounce on her... she may not admit it but if she lets men use her something is seriously wrong somewhere like it's what expected of her... Don't think she's slutty looking but the men she gets with are her downfall... only she can change her ways with going with any man, she confuses one night stands to love, women desperate to be loved will always sleep around because even if it's part time intimacy it's better than none at all...
She has to work that out for herself and I'm sure one day a good man will marry her if she stays away from the bad ones2