I feel like everytime I take selfies and stuff it looks like I'm big (fat) when I'm actually not! Which sucks because the people that don't know me in real life will think I am after looking at my pics. So do you think I look like it? If so what should I do? Oh by the way ignore how ugly my face looks in this pic I just needed to take a quick selfie to put on here XD
Most Helpful Guy
The truth sucks and we're all trying our best to deny reality at times, but the reality of this picture is that one can easily see that you are most definitely too heavy. You have the right to believe you're not, but it would not be realistic.
What you should do? Well, if you don't want to be seen as fat there is only one solution: Lose weight. Eat healthier food and find a form of exercise you love and it even feel like that much of a chore.
That said, you are definitely aren't ugly and things can only improve when you start losing weight. I can't force you though, only you yourself can.
And I'm saying all this as a guy who is most definitely fat, but losing weight. I'm also saying this as a guy who often feelshimself attracted to overweight girls, but I simply do not take fat-denialism well.0
Most Helpful Girl
Instead of taking pictures straight on like that, try aiming the camera/phone a little downwards so that it's pointing down at an angle. This gives the illusion that you're smaller than you normally are, and blocks everything else out with your boobs.1