We recently broke up and I happen to have a lot of guy friends. Is it bad if I'm hanging out with them one on one even tho I have no intentions of being with them? But they might have intentions of being with me? I love my ex so I feel guilty no matter what but the thing is should I? The last thing I would want my ex to think is I moved on from him so quickly and that I'm "easy" cause I'm hanging out with guys. People are closed minded so even if I am honest about the fact that we're just friends, my ex or even my guy friend will think she gets around or something. Plus they all know I have a boyfriend and the ones I hang out w the most know that I broke up w him or I'm struggling in my relationship and they're all cordial and friendly about it like giving me advice etc. but you never know with guys especially from my experience. They'll get with the girl any chance they have. But besides that, I wouldn't wanna hurt my ex or make him think I'm this chick who gets around.
Do I look bad if I'm doing this after my boyfriend and I broke up?
What Guys Said 2
Once you've broken up, you have no obligation to base the course of your actions on how it might make your ex-boyfriend feel.
I would actually recommend that the gentlest thing here is to cut him off and make it so he can't see what's going on with your life. At some point you'll want a boyfriend, and you shouldn't be worried about your ex-boyfriend's feelings at that point.
It's hard not to feel guilt when breaking a person's heart, but everyone has to move on.0
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Who gives a shit what your ex thinks. He is your ex and has no say in the matter.0
What Girls Said 1
It's ok to have just guy friends...0
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