I'm scared to have sex because I look good while clothed, but look horrible when I'm naked. (I have love handles, thick thighs, and a flabby stomach). I'm scared that I'll get dumped because the guy might think I deceived him. I don't know if it's just me or of it's normal for people to look different while naked? I'm trying to lose weight little by little. What can I do to conceal my body during sex or if he wants to see me naked?
Most Helpful Guy
Well you are right in the sense that people have misconceptions about the human body especially the female one because in the media and especially on porn sites they portray women as these perfect specimen, but i can tell you that most guys who are attracted to you and especially your boyfriend will not give a shit about your worries and fears about your body because they can't see your imperfections through your eyes. They see you how they want to see you and alsong as you don't affect that and influence them then you will be fine. Just keep your head up high and throw those paranoid thoughts out the window. Some people aren't lucky enough to ever have sex and just enjoy it while you can. Goodluck and don't worry about a thing. Message me about any other issues 👏👏1
Most Helpful Girl
Well dont worry... be yourself !2