While I'm very unpopular at my school I actually have really good friends outside school. At school noone ever talks to me or wants to work with me and I don't know why. I behave normally, I'm quite shy but I've tried approaching them and noone ever hears me. It can't be because of my personality because they all don't know me at all, so why would they be weirded out? Is it maybe because of my looks?
Why are many people weirded out by me?
What Guys Said 25
Don't worry about that crap in high school It's all a bunch of clicky groups anyhow and if you're not a part of one of them or any of them, or if you don't associate yourself as "said" group or style (Jock, Popular Crowd, Chess Club, Gamers, etc.) than they don't really consider you. But don't worry, once you get out, all that shit doesn't matter anymore. Usually the ones that cling on to these clicks or labels tend to try and hang on to them even outside of these superficial and idiotic environments and they think these traits will somehow be important in real life. If you are confident enough to be able to try to connect with them and you feel good about yourself in general, than you'll do fine outside of this bull. Just work on your inter-personal communication and being able to interact with whoever you can come across, and you'll succeed easily in life.1
You look very cute so I don't think it's the looks. Maybe try smiling more and goof around a bit, make some jokes, laugh louder, tease people. Try to develop a louder, more assertive voice.
I'm not sure this will help you become more popular with the girls, but with the guys, an extreme strategy is to do things like walk into sign posts. You might ask a guy which bathroom is the girl's bathroom and once he tells you, you can be like, "Oh, that's what the sign means! You're so smart!"1
Too cute for school, that's why.1
you are heart melting young woman...1
You seem cool to me1
be confident,, everybody deep inside have this problem,, I too faced this problem,, the key is to give and not expect,, be happy always ,, do want u love,, enjoy urself1
Unless I see you in person , I will not be able to answer this question. You should know by now why you are not popular in school. You may not have the charm to get ahead in relationships with people of your own age.0
You cheeky..*throws bag of attention*
usually when you notice something its only there when you notice it. it could be any number of things like the way you look or how you carry yourself. in school you usually have to be cool with somebody in some type if circle already before your good on the outside there's no structure for the reasoning behind the clicks. if you try not to pay attention and talk like youve just won a $1m and couldn't care less you'll make some friends at school. also, copying their body language is kind of cheating in the department of geting people to like you. just my two cents take care:)0
The school just finds a person to pick on and they do it for fun.
In all honesty that person turned out to be you. You are just the unlucky one.
Your quite cute. Ignore anyone if anyone bullies you. Just do your own thing.0
Never be too friendly thats why0
you look cute and fine to me0
maybe you have swamp crotch0
i think u r so cute0
may be they shy in approaching you as you are so beautiful looking0
look so beautiful , dont be shy in school :)0
the guys r prolly scared to talk to u bc ur so cute0
you're so beautfil! I would like to kiss you!0
U might give off a bad smell and might not be awar of it. Other than that I don't know.1
What Girls Said 5
looks? let me tell you look great undoubtedly! but you didn't gave the full description why they're not talking to you? ask them do you have a problem with me? if they're still ignoring you ignore them. you don't have to beg people to talk with you.1
definitely not by your looks your so pretty1
It's probably because you are insecure.. I mean you ask this question on here like every day...
No matter how many times people say you look fine, until you love you, you'll never believe it.1
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