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What are the challenges of dating a famous model?
Sounds like a nice problem to have! 😉 Oh, just go for it. Live. When you're old, you'll have more memories to shift through. Your leg is an encumbrance, but it will perhaps put the brakes on in a... Dating
Let's play. How would you react if a person of opposite gender looked into your eyes and didn't break the eye contact?
Ooh, I love experiments, especially social ones. I'm really only writing to get your update later. I don't stare at people. I don't avoid eye contact, but I never linger. But from talking to... Flirting
How important is body language to you in determining if someone is attracted to you/in the mood?
Very important! It's fun reading body language. I've read and studied it. There's a good book by an ex-FBI guy, forget his name atm. But I have to admit, I've also consistently underestimated... Flirting
Do you believe “nice guys” actually exist?
Actually being "nice" has evolutionary benefits, too. Humans can be cutthroat, but we are also a social species, and cooperation is advantageous. So, I'd classify it as us vacillating between the... Relationships
Can a toxic relationship be fixed or is it better to break up?
The crux is what one labels "toxic". It is a wildly overused term nowadays. It's therapyspeak used to bolster and militarize one stance, one person's point of view, very often. It's too subjective... Relationships
Which gender is more likely to ignore red flags if a person is good looking?
Men will ignore red flags at first, as they are more strongly drawn in by a person's physical appearance. They get to know personality over time. They will put up with more if they're really... Dating
Do women find good looking men unattractive if they have low self esteem?
No. I like humility, introspection, and men who are nice. Confidence doesn't factor in. Dating
Online dating first message?
Here's some random suggestions: Specificity. It's better to be specific than to be generic. In the fiction writing world, it's recommended to not worry too much about alienating some readers... Dating
Why is the best piece of dating advice you have ever gotten?
I've never received any particularly insightful and memorable dating advice. But my sister said something once, about people, that stuck with me. And she was right. "Focus on similarities. We... Relationships
Is no reply a reply itself?
No. I think too much is read into digital communication. People need to slow their roll. Anxiety and judgment and paranoia are pretty rampant these days. We don't have the normal cues to be able... Dating
Do you believe opposites attract?
Nope. Fun for a while, but recipe for disaster. (And tension, headaches. Solidarity and common sensibilities is much more manageable over decades. Trust me.) Relationships
Guys what type of flirting has been effective in your opinion?
lolol What's "rizz"? Although I prefer today's modern men (strong but have a sensitivity that they eventually become comfortable to express to me), I kind of have/had to be conked over the head,... Flirting
If a woman is highly attractive but single, should a guy take it as a hint?
Nah. It's way more complicated than that. Not a red flag. The formula is endlessly complex and ever-changing. There's luck, compatibility, time available, career demands, geography, etc etc etc.... Dating
I keep having these nightmares?
I've had very negative dreams about my husband, in the same vein as yours, where we are arguing, etc. They aren't linked to something he's actually done, or that we were going through. It's... Relationships
Are we responsible for the patterns of our dating history?
I agree with you. And I think your choice of the word "pattern" pretty much says it all. Ding ding. 🛎 Dating
Are you forgiving to yourself?
What a beautiful sentiment you wrote here, Femme. 💐 I feel almost as if I cannot answer this for myself. I can answer what others have said, many others, and that is, "Amanda, you are your own... Relationships
Why do we put men and women against each other so much?
Sociology is kind of my wheelhouse but even I don't want to try to tackle this question. It's too much effort for little point. Best we can do is be aware of it, recognize the change in society,... Relationships
