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I keep having dreams that a guy is being violent?
Dreams aren't premonitions. They're your mind trying to work through things you think and have experienced. They don't come from an outside source that knows more than you do. You may have trust... Dating
If a boy blocks a girl who do you think made a mistake? The boy or girl? Who do you blame? Who do you support?
No person in their right mind will choose a side based simply on gender and nothing else. Dating
Was I wrong to leave the house because my wife always sides with my mother and relatives?
I asked a q on here once, long ago, about whether it was better to stay in an argument and try to finish or resolve it, or if it was more optimal to walk away and reconvene at another time. One... Relationships
Does anyone text with repeating letters (such as "Hiiiiiii" or "ohhhhhh") and is not desperate, not emotionally unstable, not creepy, etc?
It could be a young or immature person, yes. But don't count the letters. When all we have is words, we need to use language in whatever ways necessary to convey our thoughts. Now, on the other... Dating
Am I not legally entitled to a share of the profits from the sale of ex's house if I lived there for a few years and contributed?
What are you smoking? You lived there rent free, and now you want a cut of his profits? OMG. No. He was right to laugh at you. Relationships
Is the term "girlfriend/boyfriend" immature?
Yes, totally agree with you. It only felt right as a teenager, and maybe somewhat into twenties. It felt absolutely ridiculous referring to my mother's man as her boyfriend. And she didn't like... Dating
When a guy is turned off, is there ever another chance?
There's no way for us to guess whether he will stop being angry. Men are humans, just like women. They can be emotional, fickle, ambivalent, rigid, you name it. It's person-specific, how much... Dating
If a man wants to start a family in his 40's what's the oldest woman he should be dating?
28ish would be sort of middle ground of conception decline but still within reason. ? But the issue is that you need time to really get to know each other, to make sure your relationship is solid,... Dating
He doesn't help me. Should I just leave him?
Is your accounting of him accurate? You've given a one-sided story here. If he's this bad, people can only ask, why are you still with him? Relationships
I got back together with my boyfriend but I have very bad anxiety now, has this happend to you? how can I fix it?
Not enough information. Could be because of: Your need for a sense of control. He's put a monkey-wrench into your life again. You're worried about losing him. You lack understanding of yourself... Relationships
I'm too broke. Should I break up with my girlfriend?
Everyone deserves love and companionship (well, almost everyone). Don't break up with her because you think she can do better. Lots of females don't feel this way. They love the man for who he is,... Relationships
What is your favorite Christmas scented candle?
Trees. I like pine, fir, cedar most. I wonder if they ever make deciduous tree scent... Holidays
I don't approach women anymore because I guess women don't like to be approached by random guys and figuring them out is tiring?
Unless you're in a bar or dating context where it's expected, most women won't say yes. That's not to say that it's always a bad thing, though. Most women need to feel comfortable, safe, and that... Dating
Have you ever felt true love for someone?
Yes. I'm still not a great believer in the phrase 'true love'. I think love is more complicated than this. But maybe 'true' is a modifier, meant to separate the most from the lesser. Still... I... Relationships
Is it common to be scared of catching feelings?
Is it common to fear being hurt by someone you care deeply about? Yes! Everyone feels this way. It's part of the human experience. But everyone has a different tolerance or intolerance to this... Relationships
What is the saddest Christmas song you have ever heard?
This version of Auld Lang Syne by Mairi Campbell. https://www.youtube.com/embed/nZ1meFo7oF0 Holidays
Why did my date look shocked at my body count being 18, when I’m 23 (he’s 22) ?
Because that's considered a lot by many, at your age. Do you even know all their names? Dating
What are some signs that a relationship is over and that it's too late to try and fix it?
1. One or both parties having contempt for one another. This conveys such a fundamental lack of respect, it's rarely fixable. 2. The way the couple handles conflict. Again, if one or both or... Relationships
Do you like love bites from your boyfriend?
There's a very fine line between a fantastic, animalistic bite, and one that really hurts, and leaves bruises. It's almost like a personal challenge for every lover to find that line (and, hint,... Dating
What are the challenges of dating a famous model?
Sounds like a nice problem to have! 😉 Oh, just go for it. Live. When you're old, you'll have more memories to shift through. Your leg is an encumbrance, but it will perhaps put the brakes on in a... Dating
