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Why marry if she or he can divorce you at will?
It's true. And more and more people feel as you do. It's hard to argue that logic. I will say that marriage probably exists not just because of cultural norms, but because it is a romantic ideal... Marriage & Weddings
What is a way to a girls heart?
It's apparently same as men's. https://www.womansday.com/relationships/sex-tips/a51511/eating-has-a-huge-effect-on-a-womans-romantic-desire-study-says/ Dating
Is it bad to want to know why someone ghosted? Do you ask?
Yes, it's okay to ask. But it's a delicate situation with endless possible reasons, so be tactful and gentle about what, exactly, you say/ask. Is this a guy you were/are interested in? Or some... Dating
Is it a red flag if my girlfriend gets insecure or jealous if I like a post on instagram of a girl who happens to be our mutual friend?
Does she act more angry and nasty, or more hurt and vulnerable? Rampant insecurity is a tough thing to deal with in a partner. If you love her, and she's sweet in general, you can try to build her... Dating
Is this a red flag: Guy I’m dating told me to ‘learn the skill of being able to know when something is a joke’?
If one looks for "red flags" everywhere, one will find them everywhere. Think about what the reputation of bellydancers is. They are meant to be sexy, beautiful. They are doing what they do -... Relationships
Boyfriend has been mad at me for almost 3 weeks, help?
"I don’t think I am minimising it but maybe you can give me perspective. So the argument basically I put my foot in my mouth with his mom while we were all talking. His sister is going travelling... Dating
What makes a classy woman?
This isn't directly related, but I was looking through my dance folder earlier to reply to someone else, and I thought you might just enjoy this image. Your q makes me think of these that answered... Dating
Why are the best people usually in a relationship with absolute selfish jerks?
I've never experienced that. Quite the opposite. In fact, the people who made the best partners were already taken, or opting out for very specific and valid reasons. If they're with people who... Relationships
Is no reply a reply itself?
No. I think too much is read into digital communication. People need to slow their roll. Anxiety and judgment and paranoia are pretty rampant these days. We don't have the normal cues to be able... Dating
Guys what type of flirting has been effective in your opinion?
lolol What's "rizz"? Although I prefer today's modern men (strong but have a sensitivity that they eventually become comfortable to express to me), I kind of have/had to be conked over the head,... Flirting
If a woman is highly attractive but single, should a guy take it as a hint?
Nah. It's way more complicated than that. Not a red flag. The formula is endlessly complex and ever-changing. There's luck, compatibility, time available, career demands, geography, etc etc etc.... Dating
Can spiritual infidelity in a marriage be forgiven?
It's up to you to decide what you will forgive. But I would caution you to conclude that matters of people, and especially the heart, and ago, are as clearly delineated as you might wish, think,... Marriage & Weddings
Are you forgiving to yourself?
What a beautiful sentiment you wrote here, Femme. 💐 I feel almost as if I cannot answer this for myself. I can answer what others have said, many others, and that is, "Amanda, you are your own... Relationships
What is the key to your heart?
Beautiful q, Memento. Listening. Talking. Sharing. Honesty. Truth. Vulnerability. Empathizing (genuinely.) Caring. Sweetness. Loving. Words. Words. Poetry. Beauty. Adaptability (especially to me.)... Relationships
How should guys communicate with girl that are venting?
I'll be honest—I don't understand why this advice persists in society—females don't want you to offer fixes or advice, they just want you to listen. Why? Why is this the case? Why do so many men... Dating
Do you think it’s unrealistic to be with only one person for the rest of your life?
I think it's a beautiful sentiment and concept, and it's somewhat comforting, or something akin to that, that many people still believe in it. It's hopeful. But young people should be idealistic.... Relationships
Do you enjoy cooking for your partner?
I'm overall fairly neutral on cooking. The act of it is fine. It's a lot more affordable than relying on others to make your food for you (premade in grocery stores, or restaurants.) But the main... Relationships
What advice would you guys give for dating someone with a platonic best friend of the opposite sex?
Look, sometimes it is nothing but platonic friends. Sometimes it is more. But that doesn’t preclude you from putting limits on who his friends can be. You chose him. You love him. You have to... Relationships
Does it look desperate for a girl to ask a guy out?
No, it does not. Listen to the guys on this. They are not telling you it's not desperate just to manipulate you, or get you to embarrass yourself, or for an ego boost to them, or to 'level the... Dating
My boyfriend demanded for nude. I did'nt send it then he blocked me and I also blocked him. now he unblocked me why?
This guy is a complete piece of trash. If you've only been in a relationship for 15 days it's a bit soon to say he's your boyfriend, anyway. (You may have known him a while, I get it.) But a... Dating
