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Do you believe opposites attract?
Nope. Fun for a while, but recipe for disaster. (And tension, headaches. Solidarity and common sensibilities is much more manageable over decades. Trust me.) Relationships
Who are better communicators, women or men?
Are you tryin' start a flame war, Coach? Ay yay yay... Null vote from me! Relationships
Guys what type of flirting has been effective in your opinion?
lolol What's "rizz"? Although I prefer today's modern men (strong but have a sensitivity that they eventually become comfortable to express to me), I kind of have/had to be conked over the head,... Flirting
If a woman is highly attractive but single, should a guy take it as a hint?
Nah. It's way more complicated than that. Not a red flag. The formula is endlessly complex and ever-changing. There's luck, compatibility, time available, career demands, geography, etc etc etc.... Dating
I keep having these nightmares?
I've had very negative dreams about my husband, in the same vein as yours, where we are arguing, etc. They aren't linked to something he's actually done, or that we were going through. It's... Relationships
Is it annoying to tell your partner you love them every week?
Yes, it feels needy. And saying it too often tends to make it void of meaning. Dating
Is trying to approach a woman in gym clothes a bad idea?
I'm writing an erotica story about this. She goes to do bench presses and gets a bit out of her depth, and he saves her. Later that evening, they happen to bump into each other in a bar. It is the... Dating
Can spiritual infidelity in a marriage be forgiven?
It's up to you to decide what you will forgive. But I would caution you to conclude that matters of people, and especially the heart, and ago, are as clearly delineated as you might wish, think,... Marriage & Weddings
Girls, In terms of dating is there anything that an autistic guys offers that a neurotypical wouldn’t?
They're honest. They won't bullshit you. You'll know exactly how they feel. Dating
Are we responsible for the patterns of our dating history?
I agree with you. And I think your choice of the word "pattern" pretty much says it all. Ding ding. 🛎 Dating
Are you forgiving to yourself?
What a beautiful sentiment you wrote here, Femme. 💐 I feel almost as if I cannot answer this for myself. I can answer what others have said, many others, and that is, "Amanda, you are your own... Relationships
Is such a rude response really necessary?
This isn't enough info to know why she reacted this way... ... but, yes, that was hella rude. How old is this woman? I genuinely do want to know. But whatever her age, she's behaving like a little... Dating
True or false, girls are horrible to unattractive guys and super nice to attractive guys?
Way to be reductionist. Bitter much? Answer: No. Dating
Do you remember the exact date, day, time and place where you lost your virginity?
Good grief, no. The man, the experience, yes. The rest is irrelevant. Relationships
Why do we put men and women against each other so much?
Sociology is kind of my wheelhouse but even I don't want to try to tackle this question. It's too much effort for little point. Best we can do is be aware of it, recognize the change in society,... Relationships
Guys, is it a turn off if a woman wants to take care of you?
My husband has told me that women being caring, empathetic, sensitive to their men is pretty much the biggest draw in whom they choose to be their wife. She gets upped from just girlfriend... Dating
What is the key to your heart?
Beautiful q, Memento. Listening. Talking. Sharing. Honesty. Truth. Vulnerability. Empathizing (genuinely.) Caring. Sweetness. Loving. Words. Words. Poetry. Beauty. Adaptability (especially to me.)... Relationships
