AmandaYVR
Anonymous
5 d

Girlfriend broke up with me over a situation we had years ago, is that fair?

Not sure that 'fair' really factors into it. It's her prerogative to make this decision. You were in the wrong and so there's that. She stands on the moral higher ground here. But she also looks... Break Up & Divorce

Anonymous
5 d

I’m seeing a guy who’s older and we go on dates and he says he likes me, he compliments me only on physical, no deep connection. Should I drop him?

Yeah, sounds like arm candy. He's the older, he should be at least caught up to your maturity level. Your appeal to him is your beauty and youth. Cut bait. Dating

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Gloree
6 d

Why do many women frown at serving their man food at the table?

A lot of girls are rebelling against this now, because there's not that much difference between the two people both working full-time jobs, so because females tend to spend more hours every week... Dating

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Anonymous
6 d

What would you do if a hot girl wants you but you have a girlfriend?

Break up with your girlfriend. Tell her a 'hot girl' wants you. Have sex with the 'hot girl.' Hot girl walks away and moves onto next 'hot guy.' Spend many months trying to understand what you... Dating

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Anonymous
8 d

Is it considered cheating to develop feelings and a small crush on someone when you are in a relationship?

You're not cheating. You're human. We are both animals and beings that have evolved to have the largest brains, and most higher level thought, of all creatures (on this planet, anyway.) Complex... Relationships

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DrAdams
9 d

Is waiting one year too quick for engagement?

It's enough time for some. Just depends on the people. The way you know is that you both feel that you know enough about each other. Talk, talk, talk, and spend lots of time together. Oops I just... Relationships

Anonymous
9 d

I'm so desperate, is there anything I can do about it?

Nope, nothing you can do. Sometimes people just aren't into you. (Especially when there's an age difference, this is something that often can't be reconciled.) Watch this movie.... Relationships

Quentin17
11 d

What are good teenage dating websites under 18?

None. Stay off them for now. Work on your in-person social skills. There's enough skulking online. Y'all need real life practice first. Plus, just about everyone ends up deciding that the... Dating

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texas_giiirl30
11 d

Does being broke for months put a strain on a relationship?

Definitely. Financial stress and differing philosophies about money are the #1 relationship ender. Dating

Anonymous
11 d

If your partner texted you "Ugh" on a morning you were supposed to hangout, how would you respond?

He wants you to ask him what's going on, I guess. I don't like people who deliberately breadcrumb like this. I'd much rather someone just start in, tell me a story, or whatever is on their mind.... Dating

Kinkyhair
12 d

Why are people so obsessed with being in a relationship?

Companionship, acceptance, understanding, love. It's nice having someone care about how you are. Relationships

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FriendlyCanadianGuy
13 d

How do you politely tell your girlfriend you don't wanna work with her?

It's totally understandable, how you feel about this. And for what's it worth, I agree with you and think your reasoning is sound. (I have worked with coworkers/colleagues and dated them... Dating

Msputiton
13 d

What is the most important thing you want your partner to have, or possess?

Integrity. ? Yeah, if just one, I'll go for that. It can encompass a lot. Relationships

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Anonymous
13 d

My date [m] mentioned some unusual titles when I asked him what his favourite films are, should I be sceptical?

hahahaha. "Date", eh? I don't know about that. Next thing you know he'll be asking you to join in on a Liza Minelli show tune. Dating

Anonymous
14 d

When you look at the opposite gender, what comes to your mind?

There's no one common thing that comes to mind. Every person and context is different. But I do have this sort of overall feeling of... sort of different-but-the-same. I like that men are not so... Dating

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HandsomeAndBald
15 d

What do you think are the must most important qualities in a man?

Says what he means, doesn't play games, a straight shooter. Doesn't go overboard on trying to fit some image of a 'masculine man.' (All men are masculine by the very definition.) Once trust is... Relationships

Sun_Kim-Ai
15 d

How did your parents meet each other?

That's a nice story about your parents. Mine is not a good one. My father and his brother were both boarders in the house where with mother lived with her family. They rented out rooms to... Dating

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20thGreatRomances
16 d

How do I follow up with a friend who is dealing with mental health?

There's no right or wrong methods here. I've seen qs like this a fair bit on the site, and what I would say is don't make this all about you, and get defensive or protective of your heart (to an... Dating

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DirkCoenen
17 d

Should I just DM her?

Yes, that sounds like a great way to do it! Dating

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Anonymous
18 d

Girls, would you consider me “dateable”?

You sound like a good kid. One day your soft skills (the therapist aspects, etc.) will get you more than just friends, and being a shoulder to cry on or get advice from, but also a girlfriend and... Dating

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