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Do you believe that a relationship should always be "fair"?

As children, we are told that we must be "fair" to other people, and that usually involves treating them the way we would want to be treated. So,...

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7 mo
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If an established friend expressed romantic/sexual interest in you, and you at least felt some physical attraction, would you date them?

I just posted a lengthy response to a question about guys ghosting when they ask a friend for a date and get rejected. You are probably familiar...

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7 mo
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Is there a correct way to place the toilet paper in the dispenser?

I am curious whether your answer depends on your handedness. If there is a rationale which explains your preference, please elaborate!

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7 mo
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Do you have physical criteria/preferences for a dating partner and did you deliberately choose whatever your preferences are?

I had a conversation with another user who said that she has no physical preferences or criteria for anyone that she would date, and I was very,...

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8 mo
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What's wrong with my fiancee?

I got rid of the bed and replaced it with a trampoline. I thought it was great but she's so mad, she hit the ceiling!

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8 mo
3
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Have you ever dated someone with a wooden leg?

My daughter once dated a boy who had a wooden leg. Afterwards, she told me that he tried to "get fresh" with her, so she had to break it off....

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8 mo
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Have you had the "dentist test"?

This question has been inspired by @worldscolide, who asked 5 Tests That Women Use On Men, That Men Should Stop Tolerating While Dating. about...

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8 mo
10
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When are you ready to meet your partner's parents, siblings, grandparents?

If you are dating casually with no long term intentions, then you are unlikely to meet your partner's family. But if you are dating to find a long...

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8 mo
1
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Have you considered the possibility that Devon Archer will disappear or have a suspicious accident any time now?

Devon Archer is Hunter Biden's former long-time business partner. He has been subpoenaed to give testimony to a House committee and he is expected...

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9 mo
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27

Have you ever had a LTR with someone whose native language was not also your native language?

My fiancée is from China and Mandarin is her native language. Her English vocabulary is very good although her pronunciation of American English...

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9 mo
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Guys, which girl would you prefer to date?

Slut girl or modest girl? I think girls underestimate guys!

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10 mo
9
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Do you think scientists and scholars ever lie about their research?

Whenever the subject of climate change arises, invariable young people will say that scientists must be trusted. Unfortunately, scientists...

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10 mo
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Have you ever reconciled with an ex? How did that work out?

Sometimes, couples are forced to part ways for reasons not related to the quality of the relationship. High school sweethearts go to college in...

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10 mo
10
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At the end of a first date, if he thinks you aren't a good match, how/when do you want him to tell you? Guys, how do you tell her?

I have had at least 75 first dates as a result of online dating, and a few were horrible (pictures not current, lied about age, etc.) Most of them...

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1 y
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What does "it's complicated" mean to you?

You are single, you are dating, you are in a committed relationship, you are in a relationship that's breaking up, you're married, you're...

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1 y
5
22

How often have you dated someone who was a good match with your preferences for an ideal companion?

Kristen Bell is a fairly close match to the physical characteristics I would list for my "ideal" woman. However, in my entire life, I have only...

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1 y
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Girls bisexual, in a monogamous relationship with a guy, don't you miss having a girl partner? Is it cheating to hook up with another female?

I married a woman who told me that she had been bisexual earlier in her life, but then settled down with a guy for a marriage that lasted about 14...

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1 y
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How important is cluttered/messy vs. neat and orderly when evaluating someone for a potential long term relationship?

Sometimes, on the first date, you see their car and it looks like this: or the first time you go to their home, you find this: A different date,...

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1 y
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What is the stupidest excuse someone ever gave you to turn down your request for a date?

When I was in 11th grade (shortly after the end of the Spanish-American War,) I remember calling a girl and asking her for a date. Her reply was,...

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1 y
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Heterosexuals: If your choices for dating was someone "significantly" older or "significantly" younger, which would you choose?

The question arose whether guys would prefer to date a woman younger or older, I expressed my opinion, and some whippersnapper" called me...

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