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How do I deal with my growing resentment towards my unemployed wife?

I have been married for 15 years and although I love my wife very much, I am starting to resent her for not working since we had our child (8 years old). As a parent she wanted to take care of our child herself and that...
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Americans, what are your tips for someone coming living in your country?

On Sunday I will be coming to the US and live there for a period. The big stuff is already settled (Visa, health insurance, documentation, bank account etc.), I just have to do in an interview with the DHS that my lawyer...
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Wife has friend who wanted to sleep with her. How do I deal with it?

My wife has a friend she's known since high school. All they've ever done is made out back then. No big deal. She told me last night that he wanted to sleep with her at some point in the near past. This is the first I...
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Am I wrong for this, for cheating when I told her countless times I needed sex and she doesn't care?

So we haven't had sex for months. She complains that she tired from work yet she has energy to go to concerts. I would even wait until both our days off and she crys and complains. So I got tired of asking and told her ,...
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Any advice for raising strong and confident daughters?

I take my 6-year-old daughter on daddy-daughter dates often, and she’s so full of life—she loves cheering, dancing, and gymnastics. I always encourage her before she performs by telling her, "You’re beautiful, strong, and...
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What do you think about complimenting to another girl when I am in a relationship?

Hi, i am in a happy relationship for 2.5 years now. Before dating i was an highly extrovert person, talk to a lot of people keep myself busy and all, guy and girls both. Had 2-3 girls on which i had a crush on before...
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My wife wants a break. Is there any hope for us?

My wife and I, together for 17 years with two kids, are facing serious marital issues. A few months ago, she expressed doubts about our future, sparked by a tough year marked by grief and personal struggles. While she...
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My wife is no longer sexually attracted to me. What should I do?

My wife and I have been together for a decade and have three young kids. She’s no longer sexually attracted to me, though she still finds others attractive. There’s been no infidelity, and we’re good friends. I’ve been...
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Why is she making me wait?

I’ve been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now and on the second date she let me kiss her but she wasn’t getting too physical or too passionate. (I thought that was weird but I am a passionate kisser so maybe it’s...
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How can I get her to feel comfortable around me?

Last night, I went to my girlfriend’s house for date night. We played chess. After a few turns, she started acting funny. She’d get up after every turn to go “clean the kitchen”. That was her excuse. The game took over 3...
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Any financial aids ideas?

Do y’all have any financial aids method for students besides working?
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I think my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Any advice?

I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore, even though she insists she does. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was amazing. We had great conversations, shared similar interests, supported each other,...
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My girlfriend has a male friend that texts her a lot. Should I take an action?

Last week we were out having dinner, and her phone kept buzzing. Every time she’d check her messages, I’d notice it was him. At first, I tried to brush it off, but as the evening went on, I found myself getting more and...
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Does being in love mean you are ready for a committed, exclusive relationship?

Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship without already being in love? Is...
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Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship Show More
I've never been in a relationship
I usually enter an exclusive relationship before I feel that I am in love with my partner
I usually enter an exclusive relationship as soon as I feel that I am in love with my partner
Once I feel that I am in love with my partner, I wait for sex to happen before I enter an exclusive relationship
Once I feel that I am in love with my partner, I wait for something else to develop before I enter an exclusive relationship
Being in love and dating exclusively are totally unrelated.
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Why would a girl wave and say hello to me from the elevator?

I was standing on one of floors talking to someone in the lift lobby. The lift stopped and doors open and there was a few people in the lift. She was in the elevator and I wasn't getting in, she was looking at me and...
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When and how should I confess my feelings for her?

Hello! My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. They had been together for three years. I met her about two years ago and in the difficult last months of their relationship, I have realised I actually have...
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A girl unfollowed on ig me but liked my old post?

A while ago I (M26) was talking to a girl (F23) on a dating app I thought she was cute but I wasn't interested in anything serious at the time and she was looking for a relationship. It was clear we were not aligned in...
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My girlfriend is always stressed and making my life miserable. What should I do?

I’m living with my girlfriend, and we’ve been together for two years. Lately, I feel lost and unloved because she’s constantly stressed, and I can’t handle her attitude anymore. I can’t ask a simple question, make a joke,...
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My wife just bought a dog while I was away, despite me repeatedly telling her not to. How should I react?

Erica, my daughter, has been begging for a Labrador for two years, calling it her "dream." However, we can't afford it, with 90% of our income going to bills, food, and the mortgage. My wife, a teacher, insists Erica...
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My girlfriend hasn’t talked to me in 4 days. Should I be concerned?

My girlfriend suddenly stopped talking to me, saying she needs space despite me not doing anything wrong. It's been 4 days with no communication. Should I be concerned about our relationship? How long should I wait before...
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Wife never give me compliments. How bad is this in a relationship?

My wife rarely says anything good about me. If we argue and I push her, she'll reluctantly say I'm a good husband, but generally, she makes jokes at my expense and never compliments me. We've had a dead bedroom for years,...
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Do you have any original date ideas for someone on crutches?

I recently started dating a girl and things are going great. We had planned to go hiking this weekend, but I injured my knee playing basketball and will probably be on crutches for a while. While we can still go for...
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My wife doesn’t respect me. How can I communicate that her behavior is exhausting me?

We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 5. I love my wife deeply but her lack of respect for me is leading to my depression. I work hard to provide for our family, yet she doesn't appreciate my job's demands and...
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Does taking a break in a relationship really work?

If you’ve ever taken a break in your relationship, what was the outcome? I’m currently struggling in my relationship and unsure if I suggest a break to give us time to think or considering we should just break up. Any...
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Does she like me or she is just too nice/friendly?

A girl in my city which I have never seen, saw me one day in a cafe, and we had some eye contact there, like 5 times. After that I realized she wasn’t too far from my cotyvso we met in person on the road sometimes and we...
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Am I a bad partner to my girlfriend?

I can't help but feel like I've let my girlfriend down. I had some bad days lately I can’t handle this. I've been distant and unappreciative lately, and I know I've missed opportunities to show her love and affection. I...
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My wife is hiding secret messages from me. What should I do?

We've been married for almost a year, dated for a year before that. Last summer, I found out my wife was still getting messages from a guy she dated when we first met. She promised to block him, but recently, I saw his...
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I feel more like a caretaker than a partner. Am I a bad partner?

We've been dating for 2 years, living together for 1.5 years due to unexpected circumstances. In the past year, her mental and physical health has declined, affecting her ability to work and function. I feel like our...
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Is going to the strip club considered cheating?

My girlfriend is really interested in such clubs, but does it mean cheating to be interested in such environments? Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend go such clubs?
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Why am I not sad after my breakup from a long term relationship?

We've been together just for 2 months but I don't feel sad for our break up. Have you ever felt like that after a break up?
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Should I tell my girlfriend I cheated on her?

I feel really bad about it. She doesn't know about it and would 3nev4 know unless I tell her. I want to tell her because she deserves to know the truth, but she'll most likely leave me. I would never do something like...
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Why does my wife often tap her boobs like a fidget?

She just walks around and taps both boobs just above and to the side where this girls hand is. Smiling and enjoying herself but made it clear only she is to do this! This seems to be a habit she just got and wants to do...
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I’m confused with this girl, what does it mean?

I have worked with this girl for the last 3 months and she has always acknowledged me and made sure we have eye contact and she smiles. I’ve started talking to her a few times and now seems like she ignores me. Although...
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Started a new job with great opportunities but my manager has an attitude problem. What to do?

I’ve been unemployed for a couple months so it’s fortunate starting in the medical/office work field. However, my manager is a late 20s to early 30s year old woman with an attitude problem. It’s obvious they made her...
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What does it mean when a woman let you touch her butt?

I have been knowing this woman for about two (2) weeks now, and one day she ask me to walk with her to the convenience store to get something to drink. As we were walking, she was walking in front of me, so I said what...
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Girls, how do you feel in this situation and why?

I step out onto my front porch one day and see you moving in next door but you're all by yourself so, I walk over and offer to help. You accept. We get all your stuff loaded in. We're alone in your new place and I've been...
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Was she flirting with me?

So basically me and some of my friends were hanging out in a group. The topic of our convo was cars or motorcycles. A girl said she prefered motorcycles because she likes bikers and all of them are usually hot lol. I said...
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My girlfriend receives flowers from another guy, what should I do?

My girlfriend had surgery last week and before and after the surgery her male coworker (as far as I know they are not close friends or anything) sent her flowers. I didn't mind it at all but he sent another flower this...
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Why do women show me more attention in person, rather than online?

I am 24 year old male who is decently attractive, however in person I have noticed that women will go out there way to be nice to me, speak to me even if I don’t know them and a lot girls in the past have approached but I...
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Is Texting Speed a Good Litmus Test for a Girl's Interest Level?

so i started talking to this girl near the end of the semester, and she seemed to be a slow mover just like me. i started showing more interest and sitting with her 1-1 more and more often, talking to her on sm and...
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He's autistic, leave him alone.
Press him to join in social activities.
Other ideas?
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Girls, Is this considered flirting?

I’m on my college baseball team and one of my female classmates who I’m pretty good friends with came to my game. after the game, she texted me “I noticed you adjusting your cup quite a bit, nice bulge ;)”
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Should I message her or wait?

I know maybe its stupid, but so i met this girl on facebook. I was looking for another person with similar name and i sent request to this girl and forgot about it. Few days later she accepts my request and i message her...
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How do women heal or move on from abusive relationships?

I understand there are a lot of bad men out there and they do hurt really good women. It pains me to see so many women hurt by bad men where women have given up on love or everything. So how long does it take for women to...
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First relationship advice for a 33 year old?

I've never been in a relationship and I thought something like that wasn't for me but at the start of March this year I met a girl offline we started talking whole day this went for a few days and for the first time I...
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Is she just nervous?

There is a girl I have been seeing around my apartment complex for a few months now. We both are constantly making eye contact with each other from far away but have not spoken yet. Whenever I get close to her she looks...
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Should I text my ex happy birthday?

Hey everyone, so My ex and I broke up a month ago because she lost feelings for me and I begged once and then left her alone after that she contacted my out of the blue sometimes and we last talked on 25 April where she...
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I think my boss with a boyfriend might like me or I could be completely wrong?

i think my boss might like me but everytime i think that with a girl i'm misinterpreting the signs so i'm here to ask if there's anything. here are the "signs" i thought might signal interest: -she once came up to me and...
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Girl does she like me?

Yeah i and this girl are coworker, so one day we become friends, yeah i fell for her She actually mention she is single to me when we in conversation , yeah i didint take a chance because a reason i can't tell So later...
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My ex wants me to be cool with her new boyfriend. How should I deal with her?

So basically we spent 16 years together, since we were teenagers. We have a 12 YO daughter. By the end of the relationship both of us wanted out because I held on to grudges for too long and she could just bounce back...
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How to deal with a friend who dismisses you?

I have a friend who would always dismiss whatever I say when I talk about improvement techniques. Heck, this happens with some other people I know too. Then later down the line, this same friend/person would suddenly...
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How can I use body language to show interest to a crush?

I've decided to finally talk to her , how to drop some signs? Thanks
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Should I keep pursuing a girl who didn't clearly say no?

She accepted to go out with me, but then she said no, then yes again, and then no again. She says that it's not the right time for her. Should I ask her out again later or move on? I still think there might be a chance...
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I never truly got over a girl. I have never found any other woman as attractive as her. But she's gone, married. Should I give up?

It's been 3 years since she got married. And I hadn't thought about her in a while. But since last Valentine's day, she's been on my mind constantly. And I've realized I never got over her. I just keep comparing every...
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Help me I feel insecure?

I feel so insecure about falling in love with someone. I get a lot of feelings like, Girls might only love me for money (since i dont see myself as handsome, i am darkskinned so i have been made to accept by everyone...
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Should I date her?

I'll be honest, I met her on Onlyfans. She told me she is closing her account because I am her only sub anymore. She and I have been talking outside the app for about a year now. She started it because of financial...
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My best friend doesn't talk to me anymore, because he suspected that I fancy his unrequited love?

My friend was in love with this woman, trying to seduce her during almost 2 years. She wasn't seduced and she actually didn't tell him early enough that she was in a relationship, so the poor guy was terribly in love with...
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Is she disrespecting me or just not inm?

So I've sleeping with this girl for a few weeks and we literally have sex with each other out of stupidity and convenience. We basically play a couple who hate each other. Her signature move is effortlessly destroying a...
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What to do when you accidentally run into your EX?

Recently, my SO and I went to dinner at our favorite restaurant. We checked in with the hostess and were told we had a 15-minute wait. While waiting, a woman I dated several years ago, after my divorce, walked in with her...
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My girlfriend went for a prom night date with one of her classmate, what should I do?

My girlfriend said that she will be going to a prom date with one of her male batchmates and she went there. I did not thought much about this because at first because I thought it will be ok if she goes with her...
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Is she interested and should I ask for her number?

I like a girl who works in a retail store and I’ve spoken to her before when I first met her and I introduced myself and she told me what her name was too, which was a few weeks ago and then saw her today which was nice,...
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How do I get with a shy girl?

So, the girl that I like works at this restaurant that I go to with my friend. When we first went there, she was a hostess, and she was very warm and sweet in our first interaction. I immediately felt attraction towards...
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If I am overweight, and have high blood pressure, does that necessarily mean there something seriously wrong?

I'm 30, 5'9" and 212 lbs. I was put on a medication a couple of years ago. Abilify, and fluaxitine (I really doubt that's how they are spelled) and I was told it could cause weight gain. I think I my weight was about 165...
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Very different signals from a girl in a just few days?

Hi guys , I'd like to have an opinion about this situation with a young girl (she is 29, I'm 43 ), I'll try to be very schematic : - I met a girl at a public gathering with other people - This girl is very outgoing...
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Do you think the way we eat things should change?

If people have to shit what they eat that means they take more than what they need in body. That shit is something extra and what the body doesn't need probably bad for us. The fact is there are unhealthy bacterias in...
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Do you think I should slide in her DMs?

I've been following this girl for a while. Never met her. So pretty. She sometimes likes my stuff. Looks single. Should I slide in her insta dm? If so what do I say?
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I've been following this girl for a while. Never met her. So pretty. She sometimes likes my stuff. Looks single. Should I slide in her insta dm? If so what do I say? Show More
Slide 🛝 in 💌
No it’s weird / don’t
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Confused on what to do please read?

I cheated on my girlfriend and am continually trying to fix it and respect when she wants space but one day she will tell me she wants to try and the next day she says I don't know and I’m confused on what I want to do...
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What should we do to celebrate our ANNIVERSARY?

Our anniversary is coming up, the day when my SO and I moved in together, 7 years ago. In years past, I've bought her flowers and we've gone out to dinner on our anniversary, typically to a restaurant of her choice. She's...
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How can I improve my V-line next to my sixpack abs? Do you have any exercises to improve the side muscles?

Here you can see my abs / sixpack /physique. Do you know any exercises to improve my v-line? What would you improve besides that?
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How common is it for a 34 year old lady to be interested in a guy in his early twenties (please read description)?

There is this community group online I had joined and this lady was in the same group. Few days ago me and her happened to be in the same city and she had asked me to meet her. We had an hour long meet and she was very...
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How to deal with missing someone you can't see right now? Tips please?

I want tips on how to deal with the longing for someone you like when you can't see them. She misses me as well. We are at a point when we start missing eachother at the same time we say goodbye. I know that this longing...
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Rejected by my close friend but still want to be friends with her. What should I do?

So me and this girl have been friends for a couple months now and the last month or two my feelings grew for her. Before I had feelings for her we were super close and saw each other at our worst moments. She open up to...
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I'm having this problem that a lot women want to be with me , I feel terrible because I don't want to be a reason why they are sad, what can I do?

I have seen some girls struggle with not being with me and it disturbs me that they have to go through that , I'm concerned it's going to affect my image if this continues. I really don't do anything to attract them 🤦‍♂️...
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I had two great dates with this girl. Suddenly, she went cold and distant on me. I have no idea why. Now, what should I do? Should I play hard to get?

I had two great dates with this girl. She was really interested at the end of our second date. Suddenly, three days later, she went cold and distant on me. Since then she has been cold. I have no idea why. My behavior...
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At what age should a guy who wants children consider surrogacy if he doesn't find the right woman to marry and start a family with?

Now all my life I have wanted children. Naturally I also want a wonderful long lasting marriage that goes without saying since I want children. But, my circumstances doing a career change without anything else to fall...
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Girlfriend & I had a fight, thought we were ok but now?

On Tuesday night me & my girlfriend had a fight. It was quite intense & both of us were upset. She told me she needed space. Last night we had a phone call and made up and said we would work together to move forwards....
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Girls, how do you feel when your guy gets protective and even jealous?

Do you feel it is a way of him showing how much he cares for you, or do you find it controlling and annoying?
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Why do some people get back with a ex after saying they never loved them?

My friend's girlfriend treat him like shit for 6 months he bugged her to take him back but she refuses and said she didn't love him anymore. It has now been 12 months and they are back together after not talking for 6...
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Why do woman play mind games?

There’s a girl who was helping me move who was sending me all kinds of attraction signals: prolonged eye contact, smiling, overly friendly, nervous, open body language etc. I waited two days after and sent her a text that...
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Dream about ex girlfriend?

I had a dream about a previous girlfriend, when I told her she replied with my name and asked where I'm from, even though prior she reached out to me, don't know how to respond.
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Is she giving me signals or it’s just in my head?

So, I play poker at my local casino and of course there is one really beautiful girl that is dealing some of the days. I like her (as most of the other players) and teased her a bit when we first met for her being very...
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Girls, How should I message a girl I am interested and I barely know?

I had a crush while studying abroad this semester. We met at two classes we had together, but later she changed subjects, so I hadn't seen her any more. Before messaging her on Instagram (we hadn't exchanged accounts, but...
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