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I think my boss with a boyfriend might like me or I could be completely wrong?
i think my boss might like me but everytime i think that with a girl i'm misinterpreting the signs so i'm here to ask if there's anything. here are the "signs" i thought might signal interest: -she once came up to me and...
Girl does she like me?
Yeah i and this girl are coworker, so one day we become friends, yeah i fell for her She actually mention she is single to me when we in conversation , yeah i didint take a chance because a reason i can't tell So later...
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Would eat homemade pizza bagels?
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Whats the equivalent of grey sweatpants and...
The same thing. That's pretty much all Gen Z girls wear. Gray sweatpants with a black crop top or baggy sweater.
Am I being slow faded after the 3rd date?
Hmm that does seem kind of weird man. Normally I wouldn't worry too much after just 3 dates, but since you guys already knew each other a while it is odd she got so much less responsive so quick. A few things that come to mind: - She might be backing off some because you work together. Maybe...
Why "good guys" like "bad girls"?
I wonder if you had heard of the psychological condition called Cognitive Dissonance?In simple words, "deep inside you know the end result is impossible, but choose to 'cushion' your reasonings to make it appears possible".It always happen to single-sided "love" or relationship. To the rejected...
How do you cope with being in love with...
Walk away. Distance yourself and cut your losses NOW. You’ll get over these feelings. This is temporary. Your fault was letting yourself fall for someone you know you can’t be with in the first place
My ex wants me to be cool with her new boyfriend. How should I deal with her?
So basically we spent 16 years together, since we were teenagers. We have a 12 YO daughter. By the end of the relationship both of us wanted out because I held on to grudges for too long and she could just bounce back...
How to deal with a friend who dismisses you?
I have a friend who would always dismiss whatever I say when I talk about improvement techniques. Heck, this happens with some other people I know too. Then later down the line, this same friend/person would suddenly...
How can I use body language to show interest to a crush?
I've decided to finally talk to her , how to drop some signs? Thanks
Should I keep pursuing a girl who didn't clearly say no?
She accepted to go out with me, but then she said no, then yes again, and then no again. She says that it's not the right time for her. Should I ask her out again later or move on? I still think there might be a chance...
I never truly got over a girl. I have never found any other woman as attractive as her. But she's gone, married. Should I give up?
It's been 3 years since she got married. And I hadn't thought about her in a while. But since last Valentine's day, she's been on my mind constantly. And I've realized I never got over her. I just keep comparing every...
Help me I feel insecure?
I feel so insecure about falling in love with someone. I get a lot of feelings like, Girls might only love me for money (since i dont see myself as handsome, i am darkskinned so i have been made to accept by everyone...
Should I date her?
I'll be honest, I met her on Onlyfans. She told me she is closing her account because I am her only sub anymore. She and I have been talking outside the app for about a year now. She started it because of financial...
My best friend doesn't talk to me anymore, because he suspected that I fancy his unrequited love?
My friend was in love with this woman, trying to seduce her during almost 2 years. She wasn't seduced and she actually didn't tell him early enough that she was in a relationship, so the poor guy was terribly in love with...
Is she disrespecting me or just not inm?
So I've sleeping with this girl for a few weeks and we literally have sex with each other out of stupidity and convenience. We basically play a couple who hate each other. Her signature move is effortlessly destroying a...
What to do when you accidentally run into your EX?
Recently, my SO and I went to dinner at our favorite restaurant. We checked in with the hostess and were told we had a 15-minute wait. While waiting, a woman I dated several years ago, after my divorce, walked in with her...
My girlfriend went for a prom night date with one of her classmate, what should I do?
My girlfriend said that she will be going to a prom date with one of her male batchmates and she went there. I did not thought much about this because at first because I thought it will be ok if she goes with her...
Is she interested and should I ask for her number?
I like a girl who works in a retail store and I’ve spoken to her before when I first met her and I introduced myself and she told me what her name was too, which was a few weeks ago and then saw her today which was nice,...
How do I get with a shy girl?
So, the girl that I like works at this restaurant that I go to with my friend. When we first went there, she was a hostess, and she was very warm and sweet in our first interaction. I immediately felt attraction towards...
If I am overweight, and have high blood pressure, does that necessarily mean there something seriously wrong?
I'm 30, 5'9" and 212 lbs. I was put on a medication a couple of years ago. Abilify, and fluaxitine (I really doubt that's how they are spelled) and I was told it could cause weight gain. I think I my weight was about 165...
Very different signals from a girl in a just few days?
Hi guys , I'd like to have an opinion about this situation with a young girl (she is 29, I'm 43 ), I'll try to be very schematic : - I met a girl at a public gathering with other people - This girl is very outgoing...
Do you think the way we eat things should change?
If people have to shit what they eat that means they take more than what they need in body. That shit is something extra and what the body doesn't need probably bad for us. The fact is there are unhealthy bacterias in...
Do you think I should slide in her DMs?
I've been following this girl for a while. Never met her. So pretty. She sometimes likes my stuff. Looks single. Should I slide in her insta dm? If so what do I say?
Confused on what to do please read?
I cheated on my girlfriend and am continually trying to fix it and respect when she wants space but one day she will tell me she wants to try and the next day she says I don't know and I’m confused on what I want to do...
What should we do to celebrate our ANNIVERSARY?
Our anniversary is coming up, the day when my SO and I moved in together, 7 years ago. In years past, I've bought her flowers and we've gone out to dinner on our anniversary, typically to a restaurant of her choice. She's...
How can I improve my V-line next to my sixpack abs? Do you have any exercises to improve the side muscles?
Here you can see my abs / sixpack /physique. Do you know any exercises to improve my v-line? What would you improve besides that?
How common is it for a 34 year old lady to be interested in a guy in his early twenties (please read description)?
There is this community group online I had joined and this lady was in the same group. Few days ago me and her happened to be in the same city and she had asked me to meet her. We had an hour long meet and she was very...
How to deal with missing someone you can't see right now? Tips please?
I want tips on how to deal with the longing for someone you like when you can't see them. She misses me as well. We are at a point when we start missing eachother at the same time we say goodbye. I know that this longing...
Rejected by my close friend but still want to be friends with her. What should I do?
So me and this girl have been friends for a couple months now and the last month or two my feelings grew for her. Before I had feelings for her we were super close and saw each other at our worst moments. She open up to...
I'm having this problem that a lot women want to be with me , I feel terrible because I don't want to be a reason why they are sad, what can I do?
I have seen some girls struggle with not being with me and it disturbs me that they have to go through that , I'm concerned it's going to affect my image if this continues. I really don't do anything to attract them 🤦♂️...
I had two great dates with this girl. Suddenly, she went cold and distant on me. I have no idea why. Now, what should I do? Should I play hard to get?
I had two great dates with this girl. She was really interested at the end of our second date. Suddenly, three days later, she went cold and distant on me. Since then she has been cold. I have no idea why. My behavior...
At what age should a guy who wants children consider surrogacy if he doesn't find the right woman to marry and start a family with?
Now all my life I have wanted children. Naturally I also want a wonderful long lasting marriage that goes without saying since I want children. But, my circumstances doing a career change without anything else to fall...
Girlfriend & I had a fight, thought we were ok but now?
On Tuesday night me & my girlfriend had a fight. It was quite intense & both of us were upset. She told me she needed space. Last night we had a phone call and made up and said we would work together to move forwards....
Girls, how do you feel when your guy gets protective and even jealous?
Do you feel it is a way of him showing how much he cares for you, or do you find it controlling and annoying?
Why do some people get back with a ex after saying they never loved them?
My friend's girlfriend treat him like shit for 6 months he bugged her to take him back but she refuses and said she didn't love him anymore. It has now been 12 months and they are back together after not talking for 6...
Why do woman play mind games?
There’s a girl who was helping me move who was sending me all kinds of attraction signals: prolonged eye contact, smiling, overly friendly, nervous, open body language etc. I waited two days after and sent her a text that...
Dream about ex girlfriend?
I had a dream about a previous girlfriend, when I told her she replied with my name and asked where I'm from, even though prior she reached out to me, don't know how to respond.
Is she giving me signals or it’s just in my head?
So, I play poker at my local casino and of course there is one really beautiful girl that is dealing some of the days. I like her (as most of the other players) and teased her a bit when we first met for her being very...
Girls, How should I message a girl I am interested and I barely know?
I had a crush while studying abroad this semester. We met at two classes we had together, but later she changed subjects, so I hadn't seen her any more. Before messaging her on Instagram (we hadn't exchanged accounts, but...
How can I help my girlfriend if her grandfather dies?
My girlfriend's grandfather is in the hospital and his condition is not good. How can I help my girlfriend if her grandfather dies? It is not in the same country as me and it is impossible for me to go there. I wish I...
Sixth date coming up, what to expect?
Soon going on the sixth date with an amazing girl. I like her, she likes me. No kissing or sex yet which is fine for me because I like to take things slow. She likes to cuddle and hold hands tho which I also love. We have...
2 months after breakup asked my ex for my things back…?
Yesterday I texted my ex asking for my things back that I had left at his house. He responded with OK. Where are you at. And I told him just to leave my things outside and I will get them. He kept on double texting me...
Girls, How to approach a women who doesn't know me?
21(M) here, There's this girl from the 1st year of my college, she's 18 years old (I'm in my 4th year ). I find her kinda beautiful and cute. Also she looks simple because the way she dress is unattractive to most people,...
The right exercise for my body physique?
I’m abit undecided about what to focus on whether it be hypertrophy or strength training The first picture is what I’m aiming for (strong, healthy, atheistic with nice arms and chest) and the rest is me as I am now.
My ex returned after 2 years?
My ex broke up with me 2 years ago despite my efforts after 2 months of our break up the new year had arrived so I celebrated her new year hoping to start a conversartion she didn't even reply after 4 months I texted her...
Girls, Would a girl ask a guy to hang out (hang out is go karting, which is a 1 hour car ride to get there) 1on1, because she feels bad for him?
Me 18M and 17F. She's in high school and I started college this year. I've known this girl for 2 years. We properly hanged 1on1 for the first in July. We went go karting (which is a 1 hour car ride to get there). Her...
If a woman won't leave me alone after ghosting me for 10 years why did she came back all of a sudden?
Everyday I tell her to leave me alone she keeps harrassing me im so tired of the situation it like she gets her friends to spy on me remind you she rejected me since 2013 why she won't leave me alone why can't she just...
Is it weird that a girl said she had a lovely first date & yes to a second date then ghosted?
Like I get being ghosted before a first date or even after a date but I find it weird for her to say she enjoyed first date and yes to a second date then ghost.
Single women and ghosting (even as friends)?
I need someone to explain this to me. I’m going to do my best to avoid venting. Here me out til the actual question. Women are not nice to me, generally. Those that I do manage to hang out with ghost pretty quickly....
How can I get her back when she comes back from her parent’s house in 3 days to collect her things? Can I make her stay, said she never felt spark?
So I love her so much that I can't describe. I saw her 1st time and it wasn't my intention to fall for her. But i did. 3 months in i told her i liked her and she told me she did too. The next month she leaves for her...
How can you tell if someone may be in bad relationship and not know it yet?
Such as if someone has a girlfriend they married super fast. She seems like a nice person. He tells you how she’s his soulmate and all this stuff. But you just have a feeling maybe things aren’t what they seem to be.
I blamed my crush because she used me. Now she is crying?
I told my girl crush that she used me to brake up with her Ex boyfriend to be with a another guy. She know that I loved her. But she had mixed feeling for me. Now she is talking and flirting with other guy and ignored me....
This have never happened to me before, any suggestions?
So long story short, i was a pretty close friend with a girl for 3 years, she's being really kind and care about the stuffs in my life, she's not the party girl type as well so really good in my opinion. We’re in the same...
Why is my girlfriend behaving so odd?
So I will be brief, me and my girlfriend had an conflict and for 4 days we took an break from each other but it seems like when I returned she is like "I changed a lot" and she became so dry and the conflict wasn't so big...
My girlfriend is alone for holidays and I don't want her to feel lonely. Looking for ideas?
I am visiting my family in a different country for a few months and my girlfriend will be alone during that time. The time difference between the two of us is big enough that we don't get a lot of time to communicate over...
Why is she ignoring me?
I am a university student and I have a girl in the same class with me. I started exchanging looks with her and she noticed that. every time she looks at me, I quickly look away because I am shy and I cannot talk to girls....
Girls, What if I love my girlfriend, but not how I loved my ex?
Earlier this year, I was dating a wonderful woman. From the moment we first kissed, I "knew" that she was the one. Over the next few months, we never argued and had an intense physical relationship, but were also great...
Why do girls stop replying out of nowhere?
I have been texting this girl for almost 3 weeks. We have been on one date, and she cancelled the other two times. The first time it was because of her health, and the next time it was because she was having a rough week....
Why would a girl hide she is "kinda seeing someone" and say yes to a date with me?
Asked girl out and she said yes. Two days later, she got weird and asked if I was serving that night (I'm a waiter and she works there as well). Never asked before. Said she was getting dinner that night. Didn't say with...
What's the best thing to text a female on a dating app?
I just do "hello"... if they say hello back then im probably in the top 10% of their matched. Then I say "want my ig?" Nobody says no
Ex contacted me a year later?
Ex called me out of the blue a year later... I was expected an apology, friendship, or another chance. When I picked up the first thing she said If I wanted to buy a Lamborghini from her. I thought it was a ice breaker...
How to deal with a shy girl?
I currently like a shy girl at work, but the progress has been fairly slow since we met in about February this year. We work in different departments so we rarely see eachother nor get a chance to talk. For a while all we...
I sent a message to a woman at my local takeaway shop on Facebook how much I like her but she didn’t reply back. What should I do?
Rather than telling her I like her in person I chose to do it on Facebook so it’s less pressure on her and not as awkward but I got no response. I was very polite and expressed my feelings to her but she didn’t respond...
What should I do if a girl I like has a boyfriend?
she is my friend, and we met after she got together with him. we speak a lot, and text every day. and I started liking her.
Girl added me to her instagram close friends list?
I met her online and we hit it off so far talking. 5 days into talking she added me to her “close friends list” on instagram. She only has like 400 followers. Does this mean anything that she added me to this list?
Does this girl like me I like her but I dont know if she likes me?
so we go to school together we are both 15 and ever since i saw her i have had a crush on her. So one day someone told her i liked her and she said “this is the first time a boy liked me and i dont like him” Then the week...
I was flirting with a girl and she was flirting back. Next think Ik I flirt with her 3 days later and she calls me friend. Am I friend zoned?
Basically I started trash talking her because I like when she talks shit. So she responds by saying Im a sensitive baby who rather cry and I responded by saying I can be your shoulder to cry on and you know what they say...
How do I get over this girl?
I've been in a relationship with a very toxic person for 12 years, 10 of those were marriage. she's not who I'm talking about. We divorced 2 years ago. But do to the ex, I was probably not in my right mind when this...
How to ask a girl to be my friend?
I am a very introverted person. I grew up in a very conservative country so I only had male friends and don’t have have any experience with girls. I moved to Europe recently. I met a very nice girl in the gym , we talked...
Help, I Need Advice From A Girl About How To Talk To My Crush?
I was texting my crush everyday for like 2 terms, she told me loads of secrets and she used to say I was annoying and didn't trust me previous to this. So big W for me. She said that we were friends, she didn't know I...
Why would she do this straight after the break up?
So me and my girlfriend of three years broke up in July. I was living in Canada from mid November-end of April. And again from start of June-start of September. She continued to live in the U. K. throughout. I was moving...
What does this mean and how long should I tolerate this from her?
Back story: There’s this girl that I’ve been crushing on for a while. When we first met I was sure she was interested but I kinda let things die down; I used to reply late then she got petty and it became this toxic thing...
What’s the best way to deal with this possessive woman who I think is a narcissist?
I met this woman but she has very toxic traits. Long story short if I don’t reply to a text message she will go onto another way of contacting me. She expects me to not talk to any girls and she claims that she is secure...
Is it worth giving my girlfriend a second chance?
This is the second time this has happened, we’ve been together just over a year. Our relationship is amazing otherwise. We’ve worked on so many things through our relationship, mainly her due to her past. She does...
Mixed feelings and signs and depression? need desperate help?
So back in June I used to work for an airline and I met a flight attendant who was going to Denver (I live in houston tx) so I walked up to her to ask if she was going to Denver and she said yes then we had a conversation...
How to ask out a female friend without ruining the friendship if she says no?
I'm considering asking out a female friend who I've been friends with for about half a year. We hang out a bunch and there appears be the occasional sign she might have feelings for me. I don't have a big crush on her or...
Girls, Date is going well but is it normal not to be convinved?
I am 28M and dating a 21F via Hinge. We texted around 2 weeks everyday, once a week with very long messages. And we sogar met 3 times during 2 weeks. They lasted 4,6,8 hours each. First one was just chatting at the cafe,...
Can you love someone and leave them? My ex girlfriend said we were too different and left though she said she "loved" me?
I don't get how someone can "love" you, yet leave you. Is that BS and not truly "love" if they can leave you cuz of differences?
The girl I was seeing suddenly broke up with me. Will she take me back?
We met a couple of weeks ago and neither of us has ever had such good dates and such chemistry (her words, not mine). On our forth date we slept together a couple of times and the sex was perfect. After 3 days, I sent her...
Should I be concerned that my girlfriend doesn’t text me on girls trip?
My girlfriend went to Mexico with her friends. At first she was constantly FaceTime, texting, and keeping me posted. Now she barely responds to me. She reads my texts and doesn’t even respond for hours. She says it’s...
How do I make a girl obsessed with me?
I love this girl so much but i haven't told her yet. I want to make her love me as much as i do for her. What makes you girl want a guy so much?
Did she cheated on me?
For many months my girlfriend was determined to get pregnant and made me do all sort of things to make it possible. She made us both do fertility tests, I had to stop smoking, and we took vitamins every for about 3...
Poor boundaries or no?
My girlfriend and I have been living together for close to a year. She left her husband who she has a kid with and now lives with me. There was some icky stuff in there and had to work through a few things. Still working...
How people look to a shy boy?
For both boys and girls, particularly girls, what are your thoughts on a 23-year-old guy who has never been in a romantic relationship with a girl? He is shy and struggles to engage in extended conversations with girls;...
Im getting mixed signals from a coworker and I am wondering if she likes me or not?
Hi all, I'm currently am interested in a coworker who I have been talking to. She showed signs of interest but also is giving me some mixed signals. Signs that shows she is interested: - She asked about my family and we...
An old guy friend (5 years back) of my girlfriend keep on trying to follow her on social media. What to do?
Earlier he told he want a relationship, she rejected and later became a disturbance and toxic to her. She blocked him. But he is keeping on trying to contact her. we’re in relationship for 4 years and the asshole is still...
Girls, does my crush like me?
Quick background: This girl and I are good friends and have great and long conversations when we have the opportunity. We live in different parts of the country and we text from time to time (I'm too afraid to text her...
What does :3 mean from a girl? Also what does CX mean?
I just started talking to this girl a couple days ago. She sends that a lot but I check google and they don't really tell me. I am used to emojis but she doesn't send emojis at all just this.
Is it wrong that I liked my dads photo with his girlfriend when I knew my mom would probably see it?
So I'm friends with dad and mom on fb. They've been divorced for over 10 years. My moms an alcholic, and one time she was drunk, and she said she misses my dad. I guess these upset because my dad use to drink, and my mom...
What does shawty mean from a girl?
I've heard this term from my friend talking about her new girlfriend. I think that it is a kind of a slang. But do you know what it exactly means?
Why does she suddenly want to start over, and what should I do?
I've been dating a woman for 3 months. Things started fast, but have steadied out over the past month. I feel like we are where we should be. I drive 90 minutes to see her every weekend. Text her every day. Talk to her...
Can your phone ring when it's off?
this is HUGE I need to know if dis girl was lying when she said her phone died I called and it rand so I did it again she said her phone died and she never saw the calls...died b4 the calls doesn't it go to voice mail?
Can you take steroids and antibiotics together?
I've been prescribed an antibiotics, but I'd like to know if I can take it with a steroid? Please help!! Anyone else just had them together?
Why is she she jealous I’m dating a better woman?
She’s genuinely a wonderful person, she’s very well to do let’s say, and a lot more beautiful then my ex. My ex is harassing me she feels entitled to know everything going on. She wanted to give me another chance. I told...
My son's wedding is coming soon, but we are separated and divorced, how should we print the family part on the invitation?
I am looking forward to seeing if there are people who are separated from each other, or if you have any ideas to save me?
Girl said "she was turning her brain off" during a lunch date. Was she being rude?
A young woman I went on a date with said was "turning her brain of while we were on a lunch date". I found this to be pretty rude. Was she being rude or was she just comfortable letting me lead.
If my girlfriend loves me but mostly prioritise her friends, Should I do the same?
she's my neighbour but temporary long distance for an year. I put a lot of effort in this. We talk every night for 30mins. But rarely have deep conversations or romantic/flirty talks from her side. She loves me. But,...
Why would a girl say she loves me and we have sex, but not want to date me?
There’s this girl at my sports bar that I really love, and after work we have had sex in numerous occasions. We kiss, and we said we love each other. But when ever I ask her on a real date, like dinner and flowers, a real...
Why would a girl text me at 6 am but appear cold and disinterested in person?
We're on the same course. She stared and smiled at me in class before. We messaged, she texted with laughing emojis talking about our studies and replied at 6 am animatedly with omgs and hahas. This made me want to talk...
