Humans are not monogamous animals. Our DNA wasn't programmed that way, but our societies have evolved to think that's not okay. Because we are biologically programmed to want to be with more than one partner at least one spouse is always going to be unhappy or unsatisfied. If everyone were satisfied with monogamy then the human race would have gone extinct a long time ago.
It's only because your great-great-great grandpa loved screwing so much that you are born and our species survived this long.
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Women are so clueless. Fucking fantasies.
Women, you may get to live your lives with sweet fantasies, but men have to be realistic. We know, we fucking KNOW, that push comes to shove, the only person who a man can rely on is himself.
If shit hits the fan, a woman ALWAYS has someone (or the government) to prop her up. If things go bad for a man... he goes homeless. Society discards him. And he dies.
Women don't have our backs. Let's not play that game.
With the way laws are structured, and with the way women behave today, a man is a damn fool if he marries.
Take Owner... I don't know what kind of fantasy world you live in, but you don't do ANYONE any good by spreading your filth around.
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myTake Owner
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Lol okay women hater. Why dont you start to fuck men then? Guess what, i do not live in a fantasy world. I simply believe in marriage, and i am not a lazy fuck who just spends her mens momey and treats him like shit. I treat him like a king, do the household, give him good head when he needs it and i still work and make money. Take that.
Hating women and hating marriage are NOT the same thing.
As it so happens--I DO hate women. Because I witnessed them trash a number of male lives around me. Growing up, I watched the lives of the men around me get thrown on the scrap heap, with the women only to gleeful to throw around false abuse claims because it ensured she'd get the fucking house.
When you grow up watching that happen fucking left and right, it's fucking hard to think well of women--remember, it was our fucking cunt mothers wrecking our father's lives, and men of my generation are supposed to fucking want to sign up for the same thing?
My ex stepfather used to abuse me physically, mentally and even tried to abuse me sexually, which luckily failed. Does that give me the right to hate him? Yes. But does it give me the right to blame his sick mind on all males on this planet? No.
It used to influence me a lot what has happened back then, but i got a rid of all my negativity , found myself and love, so not women are the problem. Its you. If your people like to mess with bitches its their deal. Not the problem of all women around the planet. Its saddens me that men these days are so bitter, and mostly domt see any fault in themselves either.
From a girl's point of view -- yeah, marriage is awesome or whatever. But from a guy's point of view, it's NOT. If it has to be, then please help us by changing the laws instead of writing up these baseless statements.
Nope marriage is not for me I'm going to get a surrogate mother and just be with different women I'd rather not bet my child, money, house, pet in a marriage that has a 50% chance of failing
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Anonymous
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That's good you have a good marriage.
The right partner is everything.
And ultimately, the right partner, is about 30% really seeing them, and 70% luck.
I can't remember any time in a decade of marriage where I had sex 5 times in a month, excluding when she wanted to get pregnant.
I AM happy for you though, and there ARE a lot like you. Just a lot that aren't.
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I like how you put down other people's mytakes bullshit in your mytake and claim your mytake is positive. That's cute. I believe the mytake you were referring to reasons some guys have for not getting married. It's not fact it's opinion just like your mytake is opinion which you don't know how to respect
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myTake Owner
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I know how to respect, but its mytake and my opinion. If people bullshit on it, i put them in their place. I never comment negative things on theirs either! Tell me about respect
I meant to say you call someone else's mytake bullshit and claim yours is positivity. It just seems odd to put that in the same mytake. It doesn't show respect for others in my opinion
And then you say you don't want to hear shit about other people's opinions but you are only allowed to have yours? How does cussing make this positive at all
Well its my own mytake though, i wouldn't shit on someones opinion in their own. But i do can call it out on mine I guess. And bullshit referred only to the sex life single vs married part because that just seems too unreal. At least for men. And also the part where women are always portrayted as the evil witches who just want to destroy lifes. I mean come on.
Everyone has different life experiences it does not mean one opinion is right over the other. I can't help but feel this is a bit bias because you are married. Not all marriages are the same
And i never said i dont want to hear shit? I said i dont want to hear the same old negative women hating comments that still made it on my mytake. I dont know why you're calling me out now. Its my own mytake im allowed to say whatever i want. At least i still have a positive mindset on relationships and dont trash talk a gender
GOSH GIRL! its meant to be a positive mytake which should encourage marriage because there are so so many negative topics and mindsets on marriage. Gosh get a grip. Sorry that i am trying to defend our gender, because apparently men hate women.. As it seems.
It's different for men and women. Men invest more into a relationship, and when it invariably melts down, family courts destroy the man and give the spoils (what's left after the laywers' and court's cuts) to the woman.
The threat of this is always present for the man. It's called "the gun in the room."
Of course marriage is awesome. You're a woman. You are the only one who stands to gain.
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myTake Owner
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In case of divorce. I am talking marriage. Not divorce
Marriage is just the vanguard of divorce. But it doesn't matter if the divorce never comes, the gun in the room still spoils the dynamic. She can destroy him at any moment with one phone call, and have the full force of the state behind her.
"You just know that you got to make it work when you are married" dead wrong. Try telling that to the divorced couples. You simply don't have to make it work anymore, you don't have an incentive to anyway. The moment getting divorced became an acceptable and normal thing, marriage lost its value and meaning.
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Yea but only for those who get married thinking that way. Not for me, neither for my husband. And if people think this way upfront, they dont have a right to complain about losing money
Marriage is a patriarchal arrangement to acquire a sex object, a baby making machine and a personal maid.
A woman is to be seen and not heard. She changes her name and should never see her father's family again. They better NEVER USE THE PHONE unless we know who they're talking to. I mean if you're a man and you run your house, there should only be ONE voice in that house. Man is the head of the household. Men go outside, but women stay at home. Sons must submit to father. Wives must submit to husband and adult son. A woman's role is to COOK, CLEAN and be GOOD IN BED. She must serve her lord well, and that's all she must do.
A woman should be covered from head to toe and should look down, and if they ever leave the house, they're not allowed to make eye contact with anyone. Ever.
@cinderelli ma boi ihav2fart alrdy have a busty HAWT white chix for himself so i doubt he want u lel 😆 dont worry ma paki cutie, ill take u home and give u all ma LUV and affections like no others before meh 💏💍
... really? friends with benefits works both ways, it takes two to tango. Lady Thai boys? Um I guess if they are into that sort of thing. Fleshlights, blowup dolls, and internet porn don't replace the real thing. Nothing beats real human contact. That's like saying women don't want men anymore because of vibrators. They are just sex toys. The reason most men do not want to get married, is because you don't have to legally marry to be with or live with someone you love. Why do you need a contract for love? You can enjoy that happiness without marriage, while also keeping the state out of your love life and finances.
I am very happy to have read this my take. To often I hear people bash marriage way to much. It gives me hope to know there are still people out there who find the joy of marriage.
Those are all great reasons, but none of them are necessarily exclusive to marriage. You can co-habit with one partner for the rest of your life, and enjoy every single one of your listed benefits.
Apart from the last point all of these can apply to a normal long-term relationship, and the getting to know them more/commitment thing depends on what couple you are. I get why people want to marry (the symbol, tradition, religion,…) but I don't see why I would, personally.
Good for you nobody cares 99% of everything you just mentioned is found in relationships that live together so no real positive in getting married haha also the problem isn't the law its the people bahahaha fuck off you just got married 3 years later you'll start making my takes on how to file for divorce
To her XD she got rekt by you lol. About the comment about the age lol, im 17 and im sometimes not taken as seriously as an adult here on gag lol, annoying.
*you instead of 'why' lol. but I <3 the idea of wearing rings and saying he's my husband, and people don't know it's not legal. I like messing with people.
I get what you're saying but I think it's a stupid idea to be legally bound to someone... I never want to marry, for one main reason. I don't want to get divorced.
@homper87 its called reality "bro" but since you'll be the one benefiting in the marriage and after it you dont have "fear" now do you precautious and informed is more like it
I just consider it being realistic. I don't need a piece of paper to stay committed to someone. I'm not saying everyone who gets married does of course. Just the way I see things.
there there is the cheating wife nbecause the guy doesn't make enough money or work too much to pay attention to her which then procceeds to divorce, lossing your home kids and half your paycheck for 18 yearss. sound sREAL fun to me
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Humans are not monogamous animals. Our DNA wasn't programmed that way, but our societies have evolved to think that's not okay.
Because we are biologically programmed to want to be with more than one partner at least one spouse is always going to be unhappy or unsatisfied. If everyone were satisfied with monogamy then the human race would have gone extinct a long time ago.
It's only because your great-great-great grandpa loved screwing so much that you are born and our species survived this long.
Women are so clueless. Fucking fantasies.
Women, you may get to live your lives with sweet fantasies, but men have to be realistic. We know, we fucking KNOW, that push comes to shove, the only person who a man can rely on is himself.
If shit hits the fan, a woman ALWAYS has someone (or the government) to prop her up. If things go bad for a man... he goes homeless. Society discards him. And he dies.
Women don't have our backs. Let's not play that game.
With the way laws are structured, and with the way women behave today, a man is a damn fool if he marries.
Take Owner... I don't know what kind of fantasy world you live in, but you don't do ANYONE any good by spreading your filth around.
Lol okay women hater. Why dont you start to fuck men then? Guess what, i do not live in a fantasy world. I simply believe in marriage, and i am not a lazy fuck who just spends her mens momey and treats him like shit. I treat him like a king, do the household, give him good head when he needs it and i still work and make money. Take that.
Hating women and hating marriage are NOT the same thing.
As it so happens--I DO hate women. Because I witnessed them trash a number of male lives around me. Growing up, I watched the lives of the men around me get thrown on the scrap heap, with the women only to gleeful to throw around false abuse claims because it ensured she'd get the fucking house.
When you grow up watching that happen fucking left and right, it's fucking hard to think well of women--remember, it was our fucking cunt mothers wrecking our father's lives, and men of my generation are supposed to fucking want to sign up for the same thing?
Get a fucking clue.
My ex stepfather used to abuse me physically, mentally and even tried to abuse me sexually, which luckily failed. Does that give me the right to hate him? Yes. But does it give me the right to blame his sick mind on all males on this planet? No.
It used to influence me a lot what has happened back then, but i got a rid of all my negativity , found myself and love, so not women are the problem. Its you. If your people like to mess with bitches its their deal. Not the problem of all women around the planet. Its saddens me that men these days are so bitter, and mostly domt see any fault in themselves either.
I feel sorry for you man. Your mom must had been a horrible woman.
From a girl's point of view -- yeah, marriage is awesome or whatever. But from a guy's point of view, it's NOT. If it has to be, then please help us by changing the laws instead of writing up these baseless statements.
You are talking divorce, not marriage.
100% of divorces began as marriages.
Nope marriage is not for me I'm going to get a surrogate mother and just be with different women I'd rather not bet my child, money, house, pet in a marriage that has a 50% chance of failing
That's good you have a good marriage.
The right partner is everything.
And ultimately, the right partner, is about 30% really seeing them, and 70% luck.
I can't remember any time in a decade of marriage where I had sex 5 times in a month, excluding when she wanted to get pregnant.
I AM happy for you though, and there ARE a lot like you. Just a lot that aren't.
I like how you put down other people's mytakes bullshit in your mytake and claim your mytake is positive. That's cute. I believe the mytake you were referring to reasons some guys have for not getting married. It's not fact it's opinion just like your mytake is opinion which you don't know how to respect
I know how to respect, but its mytake and my opinion. If people bullshit on it, i put them in their place. I never comment negative things on theirs either! Tell me about respect
I meant to say you call someone else's mytake bullshit and claim yours is positivity. It just seems odd to put that in the same mytake. It doesn't show respect for others in my opinion
And then you say you don't want to hear shit about other people's opinions but you are only allowed to have yours? How does cussing make this positive at all
Well its my own mytake though, i wouldn't shit on someones opinion in their own. But i do can call it out on mine I guess. And bullshit referred only to the sex life single vs married part because that just seems too unreal. At least for men. And also the part where women are always portrayted as the evil witches who just want to destroy lifes. I mean come on.
Everyone has different life experiences it does not mean one opinion is right over the other. I can't help but feel this is a bit bias because you are married. Not all marriages are the same
And i never said i dont want to hear shit? I said i dont want to hear the same old negative women hating comments that still made it on my mytake. I dont know why you're calling me out now. Its my own mytake im allowed to say whatever i want. At least i still have a positive mindset on relationships and dont trash talk a gender
GOSH GIRL! its meant to be a positive mytake which should encourage marriage because there are so so many negative topics and mindsets on marriage. Gosh get a grip. Sorry that i am trying to defend our gender, because apparently men hate women.. As it seems.
Whatever ok
It's different for men and women. Men invest more into a relationship, and when it invariably melts down, family courts destroy the man and give the spoils (what's left after the laywers' and court's cuts) to the woman.
The threat of this is always present for the man. It's called "the gun in the room."
Of course marriage is awesome. You're a woman. You are the only one who stands to gain.
In case of divorce. I am talking marriage. Not divorce
Marriage is just the vanguard of divorce. But it doesn't matter if the divorce never comes, the gun in the room still spoils the dynamic. She can destroy him at any moment with one phone call, and have the full force of the state behind her.
"You just know that you got to make it work when you are married" dead wrong. Try telling that to the divorced couples. You simply don't have to make it work anymore, you don't have an incentive to anyway. The moment getting divorced became an acceptable and normal thing, marriage lost its value and meaning.
Yea but only for those who get married thinking that way. Not for me, neither for my husband. And if people think this way upfront, they dont have a right to complain about losing money
@Take Owner what if only one side of the married couple thinks like you? Then he/she is pretty fucked isn't he/she? Definitely if it's a man.
Yes but how i said, this is something to talk about first. I would have not married my guy if he was open to divorce under a lot of circumstances.
Marriage is a patriarchal arrangement to acquire a sex object, a baby making machine and a personal maid.
A woman is to be seen and not heard. She changes her name and should never see her father's family again. They better NEVER USE THE PHONE unless we know who they're talking to. I mean if you're a man and you run your house, there should only be ONE voice in that house. Man is the head of the household. Men go outside, but women stay at home. Sons must submit to father. Wives must submit to husband and adult son. A woman's role is to COOK, CLEAN and be GOOD IN BED. She must serve her lord well, and that's all she must do.
A woman should be covered from head to toe and should look down, and if they ever leave the house, they're not allowed to make eye contact with anyone. Ever.
They must be controlled, its for their own good.
WTF is this? Orthodox Islam? Even Christianity doesn't believe what you just wrote.
WRONG.
Almost every religion and culture has preached this and similar things since the beginning of time. It's time to put you back in the kitchen!!
Christians have always followed ALMOST everything I wrote.
I forgot to add that women were never given a choice of husband. AND RIGHTFULLY SO!! Women are evil subhumans who must be kept in check!
bro, what century DO you live in? you sound
A. VERY old fashioned
B. like a Muslim extremist.
no offense to any Muslims
You're right, Christians and Jews have followed the same rules...
Divorce is still banned in the Vatican.
Indeed there is too much negativity about marriage but I also think it's great and I hope one day to marry the right person
I one day hope to marry @cinderelli 💏
@Keyspirits in your dreams. 😜
@cinderelli ahh you have broke his heart now
@cinderelli a dreamz is a wish that ur heart makes. U know what that means ma Cinderella 💍
@Keyspirits I can't marry you.. Cuz I don't want to cheat on you with your brother.. @Ihav2fart 😁😁
@cinderelli ma boi ihav2fart alrdy have a busty HAWT white chix for himself so i doubt he want u lel 😆 dont worry ma paki cutie, ill take u home and give u all ma LUV and affections like no others before meh 💏💍
@cinderelli our spicy love is real ;)
@Keyspirits ooh @Ihav2fart wants me alright.. our love is so hot and spicy.. he wants me bad. 😉😁we are made for each other.. 😂😂
@cinderelli is this hot and spicy feeling mutual? ;o
@Ihav2fart oh yes Hottie! 😉💕
@cinderelli where have you been all my life?
@Ihav2fart waiting for you <3
Of course a female wrote this, why am I not surprised?
I'd marry this babez for smex and her virgin bod 👄👙💋
@keyspirits
Quit stalking me, weirdo
How is it wrong to keep ma lioness in chk D=
@keyspirits
ew that's like trauma inducing, gross.
You don't need marriage for commitment. Marriage is just a legal contract.
Some men don't need it... they got fwbs, blow up dolls, lady Thai boys, fleshlights and internet porn.
... really? friends with benefits works both ways, it takes two to tango. Lady Thai boys? Um I guess if they are into that sort of thing. Fleshlights, blowup dolls, and internet porn don't replace the real thing. Nothing beats real human contact. That's like saying women don't want men anymore because of vibrators. They are just sex toys. The reason most men do not want to get married, is because you don't have to legally marry to be with or live with someone you love. Why do you need a contract for love? You can enjoy that happiness without marriage, while also keeping the state out of your love life and finances.
Someone can't read
I am very happy to have read this my take. To often I hear people bash marriage way to much. It gives me hope to know there are still people out there who find the joy of marriage.
Those are all great reasons, but none of them are necessarily exclusive to marriage. You can co-habit with one partner for the rest of your life, and enjoy every single one of your listed benefits.
I agree ^^ I like the idea of marriage, but I have friend that not married and have those things :)
Apart from the last point all of these can apply to a normal long-term relationship, and the getting to know them more/commitment thing depends on what couple you are. I get why people want to marry (the symbol, tradition, religion,…) but I don't see why I would, personally.
Me too. I've started to see it as a kind of unnecessary formality to prove to everybody else what you already knew: that you're committed.
Good for you nobody cares 99% of everything you just mentioned is found in relationships that live together so no real positive in getting married haha also the problem isn't the law its the people bahahaha fuck off you just got married 3 years later you'll start making my takes on how to file for divorce
Haha yea, says the 19yr old.
Age is irrelevant and you know it there's people who are 60 saying the same thing I am also aren't you in the same age range as I am?
SHOTS FIRED, SHOTS FIRED!!
https://youtu.be/z2ZT1P9lVkE
Haha @Dipsy what part are you saying shots fired to?
To her XD she got rekt by you lol.
About the comment about the age lol, im 17 and im sometimes not taken as seriously as an adult here on gag lol, annoying.
Haha @Dipsy haha yeah the age thing gets annoying.
why not just get married w/o the certificate? just because it's not legal doesn't mean why can't wear rings!
Thank you, the pro marriage camp just can not see outside the box.
This is a pro marriage mytake, what do you expect @northeast106 i saidnobody needs a contract to be happy! To each their own.
*you instead of 'why' lol. but I <3 the idea of wearing rings and saying he's my husband, and people don't know it's not legal. I like messing with people.
I get what you're saying but I think it's a stupid idea to be legally bound to someone... I never want to marry, for one main reason. I don't want to get divorced.
Well that's living in negativity and fear bro!
@homper87 its called reality "bro" but since you'll be the one benefiting in the marriage and after it you dont have "fear" now do you precautious and informed is more like it
@Nicolás25 Perhaps reality as you know it, but we create our own realities.
I just consider it being realistic. I don't need a piece of paper to stay committed to someone. I'm not saying everyone who gets married does of course. Just the way I see things.
there there is the cheating wife nbecause the guy doesn't make enough money or work too much to pay attention to her which then procceeds to divorce, lossing your home kids and half your paycheck for 18 yearss. sound sREAL fun to me
If you're dumb enough to marry or even date a woman like that you deserve it.
every woman under the right situation will fuck you up like that trust me