I'm helping my brother's fiance plan her wedding, and she's putting together her bridal party. She's trying to keep it as small as possible because my brother doesn't have all too many friends, and can probably come up with 5 groomsmen at most. She doesn't want to ask my older sister to be a bridesmaid because she doesn't feel that she would fit in with the rest of her friends (we're all very girly, into makeup/clothes etc.,) and my sister just isn't at all. The messed up part is, is that my brother's fiance was a bridesmaid in my sister's wedding. She says she wants my sister to be apart of the wedding, but not as a bridesmaid. If it were up to me, I would let her be one if she wanted to be, but my brother's fiance is being stubborn. I really don't want my sister's feelings to be hurt, how could we go about this?
So, any suggestions? Thanks!
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She shouldn't do this and you shouldn't help her. It's going to hurt your sisters feelings0