If you wanted to get married but constantly was messed over and hurt by the opposite sex, when would you stop trying? I've been married before, loved a few women, in love two times and I am now tired of being messed over and hurt. My last break up was 4 months ago and I am no where near over it. I was in love with her, wanted to marry her and she dumped me because I didn't meet her expectations but she said she was in love with me. I'm thinking I'm done with women. Should I continue?
Most Helpful Guy
All the time you were with that woman a voice was telling you she is not the right one.
You ignored that voice and now you are suffering because you invested your heart into her.
My advice, stop investing yourself in unworthy women. Learn to listen to your instincts...
And further, getting married is not something you just "do" when you feel like it. I tend to believe you are so lonely and desperate you didn't care to acknowledge all of the warning signs that were there. We just don't want to.
Being lonely and desperate is a sure way to marry a nightmare.
Instead, work on yourself. Work through the loneliness until you are self sufficient and can live without a mate. A woman can sense a man who is desperate and she will take advantage of that even if she is not aware of it.
So don't be desperate. Discipline is painful as you deny yourself, but it is the best advice i can give you.1