she isn't friends with his wife, only befriending the husband. yes or no and why?
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Define the friendship... If you all are friends to where you have occasional conversations or say hello in passing, that is fine.
If you are friends to where you go out for coffee regularly, you have lunch "friend dates", he comes to your place alone and you hang out or whatever else... Then absolutely not.
A married man has a home and a wife. They have friends outside that home and their wife but their time shouldn't primarily be consumed by another woman. If I had a long day, I would look forward to coming home to the man I love and enjoying dinner with him / unwinding... If my man is too preoccupied with texting/taking calls from you, I would feel disrespected. If my man is late to dinner because he is out having drinks with you one on one, I would feel disrespected. If he passes up dinner with me and chooses you, I would feel disrespected.
Be realistic in your idea of a friendship.2
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