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You know, you'd be suprised how many men look at these sites. All men are like animals, they want to explore, so for him it may be a safe way online. If you asked in a survey to a guy do you look at porn regularly the result may be 80%! My mum even told my own dad off for viewing pages like this and programs late at night, so he removed the programs. But I checked history and there was all these dirty sites listed. But after that I checked every day and nothing, either he deletes the history or he stopped viwing these pages. But in your case I think you could can settle this situation. Why don't you suprise him once in a while, put on some sexy lingerie and show him what he's missing. If he still continues why don't you ask him to try out these things he sees online on you! watch it together then you will be on fire! lol
Geez- no offense, but I think you need to lighten up-he's not cheating on you, he still loves you- and so I hate to say it but responding like this is really not going to help your case...how about instead of acting like this about it, accept it and try and improve your sexual relationship with him, so he won't have to watch porn so much...but even still, men who are dating incredibly attractive women will still enjoy looking at other women, will fantasise about being with other women etc. because men function a little differently from women when it comes to sex and are more inclided to have ploygamous desires. But getting that angry about it really isn't going to help anyone, least of all you and having looekd at your updates that's somethign you might want to consuder in your next relationship. xxxxxxxxxx
tlk to him...let him kno of ur deep deep love for him...and here's an idea...maybe there isn't enough excitement...a womans body is a beautiful thing...theres nothing wrong with looking but all about the motive of looking...maybe you could get creative and get nude pics...if you comfortable wit tha...by a special photographer tha you would trust...amke a calendar or something fo ur man as a gift and let him kno tha you want him to enjoy himself with you and tha you want to fufill his need and want...tha the otha pics cannt make him happy but you can be thur and if he want to look there they r...of u...get a little freaky...do some fun pics...u kno the kind tha would turn him on...let him enjoy the pics...lol..maybe tha is an idea...but hey not every gurl is up to tha...and you kno? he may see tha therou the effort you are showing him how babdly you need his trust and all of his attention lov and desire...
I say you start looking at your own websites. hey what's cool for him is cool for you right? maybe he won't like feeling second best and stop. who cares if it's human nature, if it's bothering you and it's that dumb and cheesy he should just respect you and not do it. I bet he wouldn't like if you were a stripper flashing your body around for men to go home and fantasize too. I feel you 100% it is filthy and disgusting and he should spend more time tryin to please you and make you happy then lookin at some trashy low life women on the computer. tell him to make his own dinner tonight, you have to go to your second job lol. ;)
You sound really jealous. Looking at porn has nothing to do with the way he feels about you. He's a guy, that's why he looks at pictures of naked women. Unless he is trading pictures with another woman online you have nothing to worry about - it's common and normal to look at porn.
Well, as you found out, this isn't about naked pictures, this is about communication, respect and trust. I personally do not have an issue with my man looking at pornography. Never have, never will. I like it too. No biggie. But, the part about him having the nerve to get angry at you for checking up on him is ridiculous. You obviously had a gut instinct he was not keeping his promise to you and you were right. On top of it all the underlying fact that obviously there was no healthy communication going on or he would have been honest with you and debated this topic instead of just pretending like he was going to stop. In the end, when we meet each other as a couple with anger instead of the ability to debate and communicate, it is the start of the end of the road for the relationship. It could take years, could take less time, but when two people cannot respect each other and work things out, even if it is to agree to disagree, they will eventually not love each other.
You are putting way to much into consideration with the masturbation thing. mean he doesn't care, its just a little shot of pleasure that relieves stress. Pictures of naked women for guys are like shoes for women. Seriously, think of something you like to do and then imagine him being really, really offended by it, even if you have doing it since you were wee. It would seem judgemental, wouldn't it? I mean, sometimes I whack it like 6 times a day if I have nothing going on. Would you really want to have sex that often? Little 10 minute forays with no affection involved? Seems like you happen to be a bit insecure and found his looking at porn to be an act of cheating or something, when I can say its nothing more then entertainment. I care nothing for the models online, but I've loved a few girls deeply, and let me tell you, love is completely different from waken'. But, other then his apparent love of porn, I know nothing of this fellow. He could very well have been a prick.
With some guys, it is because we want to get ourselves off. It's nice sometimes getting off one extra time during the day, and it hurts no one. And some of those guys use porn during these occasions.
With other guys it could be their way of keeping the jive alive with their wife without cheating.
And some just can't stand their own wives so they have nothing better to do.
But why are you checking his history? You know he does it, you don't need proof.
Do you not have a vibrator or a dildo that you use? It is the same.
Very true.
Yes, why is she checking on the history? I know why! Because women sometime want to feel they're being victimised, neglected or fouled, for a justification only she needs it! That's why men can commit suicide to escape debts while women commit suicide over something as silly as husband-come-home-late.
Pornography can be a serious addiction. He's the one with the problem not you. I have seen it tear apart familes in multiple cases. It's very sad and I feel horrible that you had to experience it. I'm sure you are an amazing lady. Just find a guy that will recognise that.
I seriously HATE guys for saying "hes a man. men do that". If he's your husband and he loves you and respects you he wouldn't need to look at them because he has you and loves you. It really seems like his respect for you really goes down the toilet... obviously he sees how much this hurts you but he still continues to do it. If He promises to never do it again then there shouldnt be a problem with you looking at the history nor should he get angry at you for doing it... If he can't fix it all together you might want to rethink your marraige if all he's gonna do is lie to you...
Look everyman is going to look my husband is an ass man I know this I would never say babe you can't look at another woman's ass its what they do as long as he comes home to you and you know he loves you let him do it. Ok here's how you keep his attention the main thing men love is a certain part of their woman's body let him see you naked what attracted him to you in the first place let him look at you naked let him touch you if your not comfy with your body that's not what matters men love beyond looks yes its important but he loves you for a reason here's what I do ten years later 30 pounds extra he loves me I'm comfy with my body I know he loves my booty so I put the kids to bed get in the shower invite him with me or join him let him see me all of me when we get out he puts lotion on me I lotion him then I let him see my body as he wants to any outfit any thing he wants I give as he does for me its how to keep his mind from wondering. Try it girl
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Porn can be more addictive than the hardest drugs for some guys. Without help, it can be a very frustrating and demoralizing process to try and cut the habbit. If he really wants to stop, he needs accountability from someone other than you and possibly some professional help.
sometimes its easier to think of someone as a sex symbol when you don't know them. when you get to know them and they become real to you, they become a real person you relate too and not an imaginary f*** bucket. I don't mean to be crude but the point is porn means nothing. love is the greatest turn on of all, that's why its qualitively different to wank fodder.
Im so sorry. I hope everything goes well for you in the future. I hope you find someone who respects your feelings and communicates what is really going on before there is heartbreak. Best of luck. Always look into your gut feelings I would next time advise you to talk to a counslor next time a problem like this persists she or he may have a better understanding about what's really going on in his brain whether its just a surface thing like masterbation or a deeper issue.
dear, dear dear girl. I am so sorry. People suck. Your husband was a jerk, maybe someday he'll see what a mistake he has made. Take heart, there are good men out there. It was not you, it was him, he was selfish and immature. Make a list of what you have learned here, and remember it.
I'm sorry that he did that to you... and the fact that he left you over it just goes to show that you are better off without him... if he can not take your feelings into consideration forget about it...he was not worth your time, and the fact that you asked him over and over again to stop and he didn't is absolutely unacceptable if he truly appreciated you he would value your concerns and try to change... I hope that this whole ordeal is an eye opener for you and that you can find a good man that will not treat you that way... and when you do you can give him naked pictures of yourself so that you won't have a repeat problem in the future :)
i would be upset if my boyfriend or husband looked at other naked women.
i'd find it disrespectful
if he continues, I would seriously consider getting him to see a counsellor
if he knows it doesn't make sense and he still does it, well, he should learn to have more control
i am picky when it comes to guys
but seriously talk to him face to face and then just say it's our relationship on the line.
i am black and white when it comes to things like this
I heard that when a woman turns down a man for sex, its like the worst feeling in the world, and kills his ego and self esteem. If your sex life is boring then spice it up! Have a calm conversation or write him a note.. Bring forth your relationship to the Lord. He heals ALL!
If I were you I'd let him enjoy the pictures. Men are polygamous, women tend to be monogamous. If you trust him, and show him that you love him no matter what, he will feel good in your presence and he will not stray. If you try to control him, he will search for what he needs elsewhere. Hope this helps.
He needs to hear your words. you two are married and he should be only looking at you in a sexual way. Thi is not ok becaue it is affecting you and your relationship between eachother. He is looking at porn and it can only get worst because porn is too an addiction. Sit him down and set it straight. he needs to quit it cause it is not going to be acceptable in this house. You are ofcourse going to check because he is not being open and honest with you. He should not be on the computer looking at other women when he has a woman at home. yes, I would check the history, not because I don't trust him but because I care and want this behavior to stop.